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		<title>By: Interested</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-29793</link>
		<dc:creator>Interested</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 18:13:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I liked this article very much, I watched true life the other night and they showed this story. Makes me sad jeremy got broken up with by all of them. I like the idea of all of them being together. It gives me hope that i will be ok with y sexuality and i might not fing only one &quot;The One&quot; but maybe two or three. They give me inspiration.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I liked this article very much, I watched true life the other night and they showed this story. Makes me sad jeremy got broken up with by all of them. I like the idea of all of them being together. It gives me hope that i will be ok with y sexuality and i might not fing only one &#8220;The One&#8221; but maybe two or three. They give me inspiration.</p>
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		<title>By: A4a</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-23085</link>
		<dc:creator>A4a</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 13:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[half these dudes are on adam4adam and a plethra of other gay dating sites lookin. so yea polyamourism doesn&#039;t exist maybe hedonism amongst roomates]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>half these dudes are on adam4adam and a plethra of other gay dating sites lookin. so yea polyamourism doesn&#8217;t exist maybe hedonism amongst roomates</p>
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		<title>By: justareader</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-22500</link>
		<dc:creator>justareader</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 16:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i personally don&#039;t think that an obvious publicity stunt should get this much attention.  

also....while i understand its everyone&#039;s right to do whatever they choose.... i just keep thinkin; 

hey guys.... thanks for the on going stereotypes. gay community doesn&#039;t have enough already.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i personally don&#8217;t think that an obvious publicity stunt should get this much attention.  </p>
<p>also&#8230;.while i understand its everyone&#8217;s right to do whatever they choose&#8230;. i just keep thinkin; </p>
<p>hey guys&#8230;. thanks for the on going stereotypes. gay community doesn&#8217;t have enough already.</p>
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		<title>By: nola</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-22499</link>
		<dc:creator>nola</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 16:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i think these guys are awesome for courageous being who they are!

poly and lgbtq politics can totally mesh together! not everyone wants &quot;mainstream&quot; marriage equality!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think these guys are awesome for courageous being who they are!</p>
<p>poly and lgbtq politics can totally mesh together! not everyone wants &#8220;mainstream&#8221; marriage equality!</p>
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		<title>By: DeWayne in SD</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-22043</link>
		<dc:creator>DeWayne in SD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Sep 2009 19:11:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hmm wow so much Hate and Self-Loathing from the self-appointed moralists! Nice to see the Gay community can be as rigid and moralistic as the Straight world.

So when do we get Concerned Homos&#039;for America or The Pink Majority ready to ostracize and shun any who do not fit in their narrow Picket Fence world?

Gay Moralists DISGUST ME!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hmm wow so much Hate and Self-Loathing from the self-appointed moralists! Nice to see the Gay community can be as rigid and moralistic as the Straight world.</p>
<p>So when do we get Concerned Homos&#8217;for America or The Pink Majority ready to ostracize and shun any who do not fit in their narrow Picket Fence world?</p>
<p>Gay Moralists DISGUST ME!</p>
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		<title>By: Elysia</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-18745</link>
		<dc:creator>Elysia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 18:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i love and miss you jeremy. im glad you found what you deserved. i hope everything goes great for the 4 of you!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i love and miss you jeremy. im glad you found what you deserved. i hope everything goes great for the 4 of you!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Concerned.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Concerned.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 21:43:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think that this is possibly one of the most tragic things I&#039;ve seen within our community yet. Sure, the initial portion of this relationship seems fine and dandy... but wait until about a year down the line. Wait until they start getting jealous of one another screwing other guys. Or until someone becomes manipulative and controlling and ruins things within the structure of this primitive vestibule you can call polyamory. Every polyamorous relationship I&#039;ve observed within my social circle, who widely accepts the practice, has failed. Either because someone assumes the &quot;alpha&quot; position, or because one of the submissives leaves and decides they&#039;ve had enough torture. This is a misrepresentation of the community, and I feel as if when things like this keep happening, there isn&#039;t an ice cubes chance in hell of gay people ever getting married. Why? Because polygamy isn&#039;t legal in regular marriages, so why on earth would it ever be legal for gays?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that this is possibly one of the most tragic things I&#8217;ve seen within our community yet. Sure, the initial portion of this relationship seems fine and dandy&#8230; but wait until about a year down the line. Wait until they start getting jealous of one another screwing other guys. Or until someone becomes manipulative and controlling and ruins things within the structure of this primitive vestibule you can call polyamory. Every polyamorous relationship I&#8217;ve observed within my social circle, who widely accepts the practice, has failed. Either because someone assumes the &#8220;alpha&#8221; position, or because one of the submissives leaves and decides they&#8217;ve had enough torture. This is a misrepresentation of the community, and I feel as if when things like this keep happening, there isn&#8217;t an ice cubes chance in hell of gay people ever getting married. Why? Because polygamy isn&#8217;t legal in regular marriages, so why on earth would it ever be legal for gays?</p>
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		<title>By: james</title>
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		<dc:creator>james</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 05:25:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[i&#039;d just like to say that i am glad that matt and the rest of the the Q-Notes staff decided to publish this article. i find it very important that everyone realize first off and foremost that this article is not out to bring attention to the &quot;gay&quot; community. its to show off a sub genre if you will of the gay community. we have the choice in this country to make decisions. one of those being to be faithful and loving to one person or to multiples. polyamorous dating is not something new to the world. it simply just hasnt been in the spot light. i am great friends of jim, chris, and thomas. they are all great guys with wonderful hearts. i&#039;ve lived with them and seen the way they all do their part in there symbiotic lifestyle. like cliff said i applaud the boys for their courage and bravery. to the boys i&#039;d just like say i&#039;m proud of you, let the people talk their shit. just realize most of them couldn&#039;t deal with half the troubles and strife that you all deal with.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#8217;d just like to say that i am glad that matt and the rest of the the Q-Notes staff decided to publish this article. i find it very important that everyone realize first off and foremost that this article is not out to bring attention to the &#8220;gay&#8221; community. its to show off a sub genre if you will of the gay community. we have the choice in this country to make decisions. one of those being to be faithful and loving to one person or to multiples. polyamorous dating is not something new to the world. it simply just hasnt been in the spot light. i am great friends of jim, chris, and thomas. they are all great guys with wonderful hearts. i&#8217;ve lived with them and seen the way they all do their part in there symbiotic lifestyle. like cliff said i applaud the boys for their courage and bravery. to the boys i&#8217;d just like say i&#8217;m proud of you, let the people talk their shit. just realize most of them couldn&#8217;t deal with half the troubles and strife that you all deal with.</p>
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		<title>By: Cliff</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-15304</link>
		<dc:creator>Cliff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 00:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find this article very intriguing! Go Qnotes! And go boys! 

I have read all the comments and believe that first the boys deserve some credit for allowing their relationship to be exploited. 

Second our community has so much diversity why not talk and discuss it? Does not mean what others chose to do has to become your way of life. I mean I am a one on one kind of guy but that does not mean I was always that way. It is not a law to be involved in a four some. Besides if you think back a few decades multi racial couples would have been unheard of....]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find this article very intriguing! Go Qnotes! And go boys! </p>
<p>I have read all the comments and believe that first the boys deserve some credit for allowing their relationship to be exploited. </p>
<p>Second our community has so much diversity why not talk and discuss it? Does not mean what others chose to do has to become your way of life. I mean I am a one on one kind of guy but that does not mean I was always that way. It is not a law to be involved in a four some. Besides if you think back a few decades multi racial couples would have been unheard of&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Ashley</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-14866</link>
		<dc:creator>Ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 12:46:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know two of the four. Glad it all works for you!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know two of the four. Glad it all works for you!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-14344</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks David : )]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks David : )</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-14305</link>
		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:09:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am really amused by the negative responses by so many individuals. The same words you&#039;re using against these four are used by straights who condemn any gay relationship. I guess bigots come in all flavors.

I have to conclude that many of those who are protesting are hiding skeletons in their own closets while others are simply jealous of these guys.

Will this relationship last? Statistically, probably not. Of course, over 90 percent of mine haven&#039;t lasted. If they are enjoying it today, then great. They aren&#039;t hurting anyone. If it ends tomorrow, so be it. Carpe diem!

Will Q-Notes survive this? Yes. It will probably be one of their most popular issues ever. Will Q-Notes eventually fail? Given the track record of both mainstream and gay print publications, they&#039;ll either adapt or fail. Print is dying a slow death. Hopefully, Jim can adapt and keep it going.

xoxoxoxo]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am really amused by the negative responses by so many individuals. The same words you&#8217;re using against these four are used by straights who condemn any gay relationship. I guess bigots come in all flavors.</p>
<p>I have to conclude that many of those who are protesting are hiding skeletons in their own closets while others are simply jealous of these guys.</p>
<p>Will this relationship last? Statistically, probably not. Of course, over 90 percent of mine haven&#8217;t lasted. If they are enjoying it today, then great. They aren&#8217;t hurting anyone. If it ends tomorrow, so be it. Carpe diem!</p>
<p>Will Q-Notes survive this? Yes. It will probably be one of their most popular issues ever. Will Q-Notes eventually fail? Given the track record of both mainstream and gay print publications, they&#8217;ll either adapt or fail. Print is dying a slow death. Hopefully, Jim can adapt and keep it going.</p>
<p>xoxoxoxo</p>
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		<title>By: KR</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-14272</link>
		<dc:creator>KR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 11:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every relationship is different, it is not anyones place to condone or condem. That is the decision of those young men. As for Q-Notes Staff sickntired do you know any of them? I happen to know there is only one person under 30.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every relationship is different, it is not anyones place to condone or condem. That is the decision of those young men. As for Q-Notes Staff sickntired do you know any of them? I happen to know there is only one person under 30.</p>
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		<title>By: Eric</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-14146</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 02:14:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can someone answer me this?  It&#039;s obvious this is about as low as Q can get before completely crashing and burning, BUT, why have they resulted in this?  Is it (ONE) the economy, (TWO) to keep up with competition, (THREE) lack of internal staff, or (FOUR) do they really just not care anymore?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can someone answer me this?  It&#8217;s obvious this is about as low as Q can get before completely crashing and burning, BUT, why have they resulted in this?  Is it (ONE) the economy, (TWO) to keep up with competition, (THREE) lack of internal staff, or (FOUR) do they really just not care anymore?</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-14145</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 01:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well, I have to agree with &quot;voice&quot; partly.  Only that the issue being bad has nothing to do with the fact it makes these relationships look ok.... but I have to say this issue is bad because it&#039;s not the news worthy stuff that readers and paying advertisers have came to expect after 20 years.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I have to agree with &#8220;voice&#8221; partly.  Only that the issue being bad has nothing to do with the fact it makes these relationships look ok&#8230;. but I have to say this issue is bad because it&#8217;s not the news worthy stuff that readers and paying advertisers have came to expect after 20 years.</p>
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		<title>By: The Voice of Reason</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-14100</link>
		<dc:creator>The Voice of Reason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 07:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve never picked up a copy of qnotes ever until now and I think I may never do it again because after reading this article and it made me ill so much that I had to burn it so no one would ever see it. Because it makes it seem justified to have multiple sex partners and relationships like it’s “ok&quot;, this is the kind of crap that makes me not want to date because a lot of the younger generation of people seem to have this idea that’s it’s ok to sleep around and not worry about the consequences.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’ve never picked up a copy of qnotes ever until now and I think I may never do it again because after reading this article and it made me ill so much that I had to burn it so no one would ever see it. Because it makes it seem justified to have multiple sex partners and relationships like it’s “ok&#8221;, this is the kind of crap that makes me not want to date because a lot of the younger generation of people seem to have this idea that’s it’s ok to sleep around and not worry about the consequences.</p>
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		<title>By: amused</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13692</link>
		<dc:creator>amused</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 18:19:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find this public spat through a message board so amusing. You should both simply agree to disagree and be thankful you are able to publicly give your opinion.  

**just a quick side note- i actually have seen these guys out in various clubs.  While I will not pass judgment on anyone, this &quot;relationship&quot; seems more like a ploy to get attention.  It seems as if they&#039;ve just settled for  something of a group relationship to satisfy a need for multiple sexual partners as well as someone to share different interests with. It saddens me to see such young guys give up on finding one person to share everything with and rather settle for three. Though i may not agree with this or understand it for that matter-- i wish all of them luck and sincerely hope all of them are happy in their choices.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find this public spat through a message board so amusing. You should both simply agree to disagree and be thankful you are able to publicly give your opinion.  </p>
<p>**just a quick side note- i actually have seen these guys out in various clubs.  While I will not pass judgment on anyone, this &#8220;relationship&#8221; seems more like a ploy to get attention.  It seems as if they&#8217;ve just settled for  something of a group relationship to satisfy a need for multiple sexual partners as well as someone to share different interests with. It saddens me to see such young guys give up on finding one person to share everything with and rather settle for three. Though i may not agree with this or understand it for that matter&#8211; i wish all of them luck and sincerely hope all of them are happy in their choices.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13691</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 18:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To JC regarding the straight community, I agree with the point you&#039;ve made about how some straight men in &quot;monogamous&quot; relationships cheat on their wives/girlfriends, etc.  And the same holds true for some straight women.  And most people or society in general would probably consider this sort of behavior immoral.  And that&#039;s all find and dandy, but straight people already have their rights.  Straight people, no matter how promiscuously they behave, already have all the rights they could ever want.  This sort of thing in the spotlight is worse for gay people, because we&#039;re trying to obtain the same rights.

I believe that if we in the GLBT want to obtain the same rights, it won&#039;t be accomplished by putting articles like this on the front page and highlighting them as something positive.  I applaud Q-Notes for taking something few people recognize and understand and bringing it into perspective so people can formulate their own opinions.  But when it appears on the front page with a bias towards being positive, it can cause setbacks for what GLBT activists are trying to do.

The GLBT community needs to move to educate straight people on what homosexuality is.  I believe that most straight people don&#039;t recognize it for what it really is.  Instead, they believe in the stereotypes, and articles like this reinforce those stereotypes.

Once again, I applaud Q-Notes for their focus on diversity, but there&#039;s a time, place, and a way of doing things.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To JC regarding the straight community, I agree with the point you&#8217;ve made about how some straight men in &#8220;monogamous&#8221; relationships cheat on their wives/girlfriends, etc.  And the same holds true for some straight women.  And most people or society in general would probably consider this sort of behavior immoral.  And that&#8217;s all find and dandy, but straight people already have their rights.  Straight people, no matter how promiscuously they behave, already have all the rights they could ever want.  This sort of thing in the spotlight is worse for gay people, because we&#8217;re trying to obtain the same rights.</p>
<p>I believe that if we in the GLBT want to obtain the same rights, it won&#8217;t be accomplished by putting articles like this on the front page and highlighting them as something positive.  I applaud Q-Notes for taking something few people recognize and understand and bringing it into perspective so people can formulate their own opinions.  But when it appears on the front page with a bias towards being positive, it can cause setbacks for what GLBT activists are trying to do.</p>
<p>The GLBT community needs to move to educate straight people on what homosexuality is.  I believe that most straight people don&#8217;t recognize it for what it really is.  Instead, they believe in the stereotypes, and articles like this reinforce those stereotypes.</p>
<p>Once again, I applaud Q-Notes for their focus on diversity, but there&#8217;s a time, place, and a way of doing things.</p>
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		<title>By: sickntired</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13666</link>
		<dc:creator>sickntired</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:21:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[fine JC lets put that to the test, I challenge Q-notes to do just that.. by the way I didn&#039;t trash them, nor did i bring the economy. you know damn well that story of older gay men don&#039;t move papers,,, especially in the LGBT community,, its about about look and youth... you damn will know it.. once you get over 35 you just don&#039;t count unless (you fill in the blanks)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>fine JC lets put that to the test, I challenge Q-notes to do just that.. by the way I didn&#8217;t trash them, nor did i bring the economy. you know damn well that story of older gay men don&#8217;t move papers,,, especially in the LGBT community,, its about about look and youth&#8230; you damn will know it.. once you get over 35 you just don&#8217;t count unless (you fill in the blanks)</p>
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		<title>By: JC</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13665</link>
		<dc:creator>JC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:12:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yes I am going to blast you for this public posting you ignorant self appointed, thinks he knows it all, pompous ass.  I am willing to bet, in fact I can guarantee that if such a story revolved around men in their 30s,40s or any age for that matter, that our friends at Q-Notes would indeed publish such a story.  Do you know of one?...I bet not.  Do you know of an interesting story involving older individuals?  Well rather than complain about the content of the publication, why not be proactive and suggest some ideas for interesting, thought provoking stories???  I think considering the economy and the cost to publish newspapers these days and the hardship of positive cash flow, and I am sure Q-Notes is not excluded from this, well...then rather than trash these hardworking individuals that endeavor to produce thought provoking, engaging and interesting stories for YOU and others...let us try and stop for a minute and look at all the good this publication does and has done...OK????]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes I am going to blast you for this public posting you ignorant self appointed, thinks he knows it all, pompous ass.  I am willing to bet, in fact I can guarantee that if such a story revolved around men in their 30s,40s or any age for that matter, that our friends at Q-Notes would indeed publish such a story.  Do you know of one?&#8230;I bet not.  Do you know of an interesting story involving older individuals?  Well rather than complain about the content of the publication, why not be proactive and suggest some ideas for interesting, thought provoking stories???  I think considering the economy and the cost to publish newspapers these days and the hardship of positive cash flow, and I am sure Q-Notes is not excluded from this, well&#8230;then rather than trash these hardworking individuals that endeavor to produce thought provoking, engaging and interesting stories for YOU and others&#8230;let us try and stop for a minute and look at all the good this publication does and has done&#8230;OK????</p>
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		<title>By: sickntired</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13664</link>
		<dc:creator>sickntired</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:12:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[fine i may a damn mistake however it still doesn&#039;t change the other part of my comment... also let add that they just show the four guys completely clothes,, no they need to be shirtless to please the &quot;you know whats&quot;]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>fine i may a damn mistake however it still doesn&#8217;t change the other part of my comment&#8230; also let add that they just show the four guys completely clothes,, no they need to be shirtless to please the &#8220;you know whats&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Gay Lee Forward</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13663</link>
		<dc:creator>Gay Lee Forward</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 16:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The LGBT community is not monolithic and it is not — nor should it be — Q-Notes&#039; job to make it seem like it is. We all have our own value systems, political leanings and social standards. The staff&#039;s responsibility is to present the full spectrum of who we are. In my opinion, they do a good job of it. I have seen many stories over the years depicting and celebrating long-term couples. This current cover story does not undo or undermine that history. It only furthers the discussion.

As to the above assertion that Q-Notes is populated/dominated by staffers under the age of 27, I can tell you from my own experience that it&#039;s not true. The majority of the staff is over 40.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The LGBT community is not monolithic and it is not — nor should it be — Q-Notes&#8217; job to make it seem like it is. We all have our own value systems, political leanings and social standards. The staff&#8217;s responsibility is to present the full spectrum of who we are. In my opinion, they do a good job of it. I have seen many stories over the years depicting and celebrating long-term couples. This current cover story does not undo or undermine that history. It only furthers the discussion.</p>
<p>As to the above assertion that Q-Notes is populated/dominated by staffers under the age of 27, I can tell you from my own experience that it&#8217;s not true. The majority of the staff is over 40.</p>
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		<title>By: sickntired</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13659</link>
		<dc:creator>sickntired</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 16:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[well JC if you must know, do you think that if these story was about 4 men in their 30&#039;s or 40&#039;s  it would never printed also 

i said mostly are under 30 not all so please put on your reading glassess.. however if you need to blast me for this email
sickntired08 gmail com]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well JC if you must know, do you think that if these story was about 4 men in their 30&#8242;s or 40&#8242;s  it would never printed also </p>
<p>i said mostly are under 30 not all so please put on your reading glassess.. however if you need to blast me for this email<br />
sickntired08 gmail com</p>
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		<title>By: JC</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13658</link>
		<dc:creator>JC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:46:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope the editor of Q-Notes will address the concerns of &quot;sickntired&quot;.  The publisher is 50, the accountant is 69, the design layout tech is in here late 50s.  hmmmm...I wonder what sickntires is talking about then?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hope the editor of Q-Notes will address the concerns of &#8220;sickntired&#8221;.  The publisher is 50, the accountant is 69, the design layout tech is in here late 50s.  hmmmm&#8230;I wonder what sickntires is talking about then?</p>
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		<title>By: sickntired</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13655</link>
		<dc:creator>sickntired</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by the way the 4 old men part would mean any male over 35,,,]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>by the way the 4 old men part would mean any male over 35,,,</p>
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		<title>By: sickntired</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13654</link>
		<dc:creator>sickntired</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:23:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[nice piece, however I bet if the four boys were 4 old men this piece would have never seen the print of day, however since it four blondish twinks, let post it, let other see just how promiscuous we really are.. Since Q-note is mostly staff with guy under 27 what does one expect. Once again showing to the world that only young gay guys are in while older gay male are out.. Talk about wanting equality when equality doesn&#039;t even exist in the gay community]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>nice piece, however I bet if the four boys were 4 old men this piece would have never seen the print of day, however since it four blondish twinks, let post it, let other see just how promiscuous we really are.. Since Q-note is mostly staff with guy under 27 what does one expect. Once again showing to the world that only young gay guys are in while older gay male are out.. Talk about wanting equality when equality doesn&#8217;t even exist in the gay community</p>
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		<title>By: JC</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13652</link>
		<dc:creator>JC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 14:50:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I say &quot;live and let live&quot;.  I welcome the wonderful diversity of our &quot;gay&quot; community and I hope these young men find happiness in whatever they are trying to accomplish.  I do not give a damn what the straight community thinks when it is they who have such things as cult organizations where men have many wives and children are produced from these marriages like cattle to the slaughter.  As far as the promiscuity issue, well I think we can all agree that percentages of straight men in their &quot;monogamous&quot; relationships with their wives and cheating, far exceed the imagination.  Let us take morality out of the issue for what is morality but a view point derived from preconceived and abstract thoughts of what &quot;others&quot; want us to be.  These young men are just trying to make a living, get along and survive in this complicated world so who are &quot;we&quot; to judge them if this in fact makes them happy and they find solace in each others company.  I say &quot;go for it boys&quot;...  Live long and prosper.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I say &#8220;live and let live&#8221;.  I welcome the wonderful diversity of our &#8220;gay&#8221; community and I hope these young men find happiness in whatever they are trying to accomplish.  I do not give a damn what the straight community thinks when it is they who have such things as cult organizations where men have many wives and children are produced from these marriages like cattle to the slaughter.  As far as the promiscuity issue, well I think we can all agree that percentages of straight men in their &#8220;monogamous&#8221; relationships with their wives and cheating, far exceed the imagination.  Let us take morality out of the issue for what is morality but a view point derived from preconceived and abstract thoughts of what &#8220;others&#8221; want us to be.  These young men are just trying to make a living, get along and survive in this complicated world so who are &#8220;we&#8221; to judge them if this in fact makes them happy and they find solace in each others company.  I say &#8220;go for it boys&#8221;&#8230;  Live long and prosper.</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13641</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 12:43:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I too was very disappointed with this issue.  I have found this cover story very immoral and offensive.  To put things like this in a positive light is very wrong considering the negative implications and the fact that few share this positive view.

Our goal should be to increase a positive awareness of GLBT people rather than play to the things the straight community has against us.  This only gives them more proof of GLBT promiscuity and choice.  And most GLBT people are NOT promiscuous, but the careless choices of a few can easily ruin it for the masses.

I think Q-Notes does a wonderful job in its fair presentation of news, entertainment, and so on, but this is one step too far.  You can be entertaining without compromising values.

Please Q-Notes, tone it down in the future.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I too was very disappointed with this issue.  I have found this cover story very immoral and offensive.  To put things like this in a positive light is very wrong considering the negative implications and the fact that few share this positive view.</p>
<p>Our goal should be to increase a positive awareness of GLBT people rather than play to the things the straight community has against us.  This only gives them more proof of GLBT promiscuity and choice.  And most GLBT people are NOT promiscuous, but the careless choices of a few can easily ruin it for the masses.</p>
<p>I think Q-Notes does a wonderful job in its fair presentation of news, entertainment, and so on, but this is one step too far.  You can be entertaining without compromising values.</p>
<p>Please Q-Notes, tone it down in the future.</p>
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		<title>By: disgusting</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13613</link>
		<dc:creator>disgusting</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 04:53:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our community really wonders why so many people regard us as promiscuous? This is why! I&#039;ve never been so disgusted.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our community really wonders why so many people regard us as promiscuous? This is why! I&#8217;ve never been so disgusted.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt Comer</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13579</link>
		<dc:creator>Matt Comer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 17:25:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To Jason and other readers,

Thank you for your comments. We love hearing your feedback. When feedback is public, however, we want it to be accurate. 

Southern Voice has published Sex Issues similar to ours before. Both MetroWeekly and David Atlanta have sex content, just as original as ours. The featured story in this issue is original to Q-Notes; no other publication has covered this story thus far. On Monday, June 1, we will publish more Sex Issue &lt;em&gt;Online Only&lt;/em&gt; features, which are also original to Q-Notes.

Q-Notes is a publication that provides news, entertainment, events, resources and more. We also want to be a publication that offers bold and edgy content, that makes our readers think but also entertains them.

Thanks,

Matt Comer
editor]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Jason and other readers,</p>
<p>Thank you for your comments. We love hearing your feedback. When feedback is public, however, we want it to be accurate. </p>
<p>Southern Voice has published Sex Issues similar to ours before. Both MetroWeekly and David Atlanta have sex content, just as original as ours. The featured story in this issue is original to Q-Notes; no other publication has covered this story thus far. On Monday, June 1, we will publish more Sex Issue <em>Online Only</em> features, which are also original to Q-Notes.</p>
<p>Q-Notes is a publication that provides news, entertainment, events, resources and more. We also want to be a publication that offers bold and edgy content, that makes our readers think but also entertains them.</p>
<p>Thanks,</p>
<p>Matt Comer<br />
editor</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13578</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 16:38:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?  When did Q-Notes decide to publish this?!?

Let look at real gay publications shall we?  

WASHINGTON DC
Washington Blade - LGBT News
Metro Weekly - Originally Content with a sexier side

ATLANTA
Southern Voice (SOVO) - LGBT News
David Atlanta - Original Content with Sex

SO NOW TELL ME - WHICH DIRECTION IS Q-NOTES GOING - YOU CAN&#039;T BE BOTH.  It&#039;s sad that Q-Notes has lost its way so quickly in a year - its time to wrap it up if news isn&#039;t working for you... because The Sex Issue... well... its gonna help wrap you up regardless.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WHAT THE HELL IS THIS?  When did Q-Notes decide to publish this?!?</p>
<p>Let look at real gay publications shall we?  </p>
<p>WASHINGTON DC<br />
Washington Blade &#8211; LGBT News<br />
Metro Weekly &#8211; Originally Content with a sexier side</p>
<p>ATLANTA<br />
Southern Voice (SOVO) &#8211; LGBT News<br />
David Atlanta &#8211; Original Content with Sex</p>
<p>SO NOW TELL ME &#8211; WHICH DIRECTION IS Q-NOTES GOING &#8211; YOU CAN&#8217;T BE BOTH.  It&#8217;s sad that Q-Notes has lost its way so quickly in a year &#8211; its time to wrap it up if news isn&#8217;t working for you&#8230; because The Sex Issue&#8230; well&#8230; its gonna help wrap you up regardless.</p>
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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13564</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 10:31:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know three of the four and still I feel this is some twisted shit.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know three of the four and still I feel this is some twisted shit.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13518</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2009 01:27:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks KLB. We are doing our best!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks KLB. We are doing our best!</p>
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		<title>By: KLB</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13489</link>
		<dc:creator>KLB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 14:53:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good for you, boys!  I hope you continue to make thoughtful, mature, experimental decisions.  The queer community needs more attempts like this.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good for you, boys!  I hope you continue to make thoughtful, mature, experimental decisions.  The queer community needs more attempts like this.</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
		<link>http://goqnotes.com/2627/menage-a-trois-four/comment-page-1/#comment-13483</link>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 13:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In other local news-Charlotte&#039;s MCC building is up for sale.  The mystery, however, is where they will be relocating to.  Details @ 11:00!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In other local news-Charlotte&#8217;s MCC building is up for sale.  The mystery, however, is where they will be relocating to.  Details @ 11:00!!!</p>
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