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> <channel><title>Comments for QNotes</title> <atom:link href="http://goqnotes.com/comments/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://goqnotes.com</link> <description>Carolina LGBT arts, entertainment, news, views</description> <lastBuildDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:48:50 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1</generator> <item><title>Comment on Naked Twister by Kenneth Vickery</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14108/naked-twister/comment-page-1/#comment-41065</link> <dc:creator>Kenneth Vickery</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 00:48:50 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14108#comment-41065</guid> <description>Nude yoga is one step toward body acceptance. By 2025 public nudity -- non sexual -- is acceptable.  The change has been coming for a long time but in 2012 something happens -- the Shift of Consciousness.  Many but not all of the people in the world change.  Most not overnight but in time as each seeks the Truth.  In 2025 Grandpa explains to his grandson how it all took place -- well, not how all of it took place because no one knows.  Acceptance, love, respect, honor and world peace comes upon the world as people grow into Truth.  My book: Let&#039;s Git Nakid</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nude yoga is one step toward body acceptance. By 2025 public nudity &#8212; non sexual &#8212; is acceptable.  The change has been coming for a long time but in 2012 something happens &#8212; the Shift of Consciousness.  Many but not all of the people in the world change.  Most not overnight but in time as each seeks the Truth.  In 2025 Grandpa explains to his grandson how it all took place &#8212; well, not how all of it took place because no one knows.  Acceptance, love, respect, honor and world peace comes upon the world as people grow into Truth.  My book: Let&#8217;s Git Nakid</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Breast cancer &amp; circles of love by Krankenversicherung</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12902/breast-cancer-circles-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-41063</link> <dc:creator>Krankenversicherung</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 21:22:01 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12902#comment-41063</guid> <description>Valuable information. Fortunate me I found your web site accidentally, and I am stunned why this twist of fate didn&#039;t came about earlier! I bookmarked it.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Valuable information. Fortunate me I found your web site accidentally, and I am stunned why this twist of fate didn&#8217;t came about earlier! I bookmarked it.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on The Most Fabulous Story Ever Told by Mary Paul Forsyth</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14254/the-most-fabulous-story-ever-told/comment-page-1/#comment-41049</link> <dc:creator>Mary Paul Forsyth</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 21:07:34 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14254#comment-41049</guid> <description>I was doing some research on the play and the protest and was surprised by the comment here that Mary isn&#039;t in the play, and certainly not depicted as a lesbian. Surprised because this is the primary purpose of the protest. I am deeply saddened by the nasty way people have addressed you; however, having read an article written by the playwright, Paul Rudnick, he says he wanted the Garden of Eden in Central park and the possibility of Mary as a lesbian mother (NYTimes, 12/6/98).  I would presume that ANF would certainly not sit through the play, but from Rudnick&#039;s own words have cause to presume that Rudnick made good on his plan.For my part, I find the content of the play and it&#039;s assault on sacred scripture offensive and do not believe this is &quot;fair game&quot; even if the Virgin Mary isn&#039;t part of the parody. Nevertheless, people can express their displeasure without being hateful.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was doing some research on the play and the protest and was surprised by the comment here that Mary isn&#8217;t in the play, and certainly not depicted as a lesbian. Surprised because this is the primary purpose of the protest. I am deeply saddened by the nasty way people have addressed you; however, having read an article written by the playwright, Paul Rudnick, he says he wanted the Garden of Eden in Central park and the possibility of Mary as a lesbian mother (NYTimes, 12/6/98).  I would presume that ANF would certainly not sit through the play, but from Rudnick&#8217;s own words have cause to presume that Rudnick made good on his plan.</p><p>For my part, I find the content of the play and it&#8217;s assault on sacred scripture offensive and do not believe this is &#8220;fair game&#8221; even if the Virgin Mary isn&#8217;t part of the parody. Nevertheless, people can express their displeasure without being hateful.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Retooled website unveiled by Yasir Sami</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14269/retooled-website-unveiled/comment-page-1/#comment-41043</link> <dc:creator>Yasir Sami</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 17:26:39 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14269#comment-41043</guid> <description>Well written details and extensive researching</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well written details and extensive researching</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Naked Twister by Tom Cornell</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14108/naked-twister/comment-page-1/#comment-40985</link> <dc:creator>Tom Cornell</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 05:23:55 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14108#comment-40985</guid> <description>I have been attending one of the first nude yoga classes on and off for about 10 years and it is wonderful. I&#039;m glad to see that supply is finally meeting demand. Every city should offer nude yoga even if it&#039;s a couple classes in a bigger schedule at an established school.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have been attending one of the first nude yoga classes on and off for about 10 years and it is wonderful. I&#8217;m glad to see that supply is finally meeting demand. Every city should offer nude yoga even if it&#8217;s a couple classes in a bigger schedule at an established school.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on An Unexpected Homecoming by Jon S</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14006/an-unexpected-homecoming/comment-page-1/#comment-40971</link> <dc:creator>Jon S</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 16:42:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14006#comment-40971</guid> <description>Brett,
I just wanted to tell you that your story really touched me. It is very inspiring and encouraging. I am 39 years old in a week, and only now coming out - long and very painful process, for everyone, including my wife; we have been together for 10 years now... I have a 3 and a half year old daughter as well and she is the love of my life. For the last 3 months I have been very sad and depressed, and always questioned my &quot;coming out&quot;, but I have to tell you that your story resonates with certain thoughts that cross my mind and I thank you for sharing it. Best, Jon.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brett,<br
/> I just wanted to tell you that your story really touched me. It is very inspiring and encouraging. I am 39 years old in a week, and only now coming out &#8211; long and very painful process, for everyone, including my wife; we have been together for 10 years now&#8230; I have a 3 and a half year old daughter as well and she is the love of my life. For the last 3 months I have been very sad and depressed, and always questioned my &#8220;coming out&#8221;, but I have to tell you that your story resonates with certain thoughts that cross my mind and I thank you for sharing it. Best, Jon.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Anti-gay amendment committee formed by Shocked guest</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13585/anti-gay-amendment-committee-formed/comment-page-1/#comment-40941</link> <dc:creator>Shocked guest</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 04:57:33 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13585#comment-40941</guid> <description>Do you people realize that it makes no sense to keep saying that people were meant to reproduce so that is why people are not meant to be gay.  Do you understand that heterosexuals reproducing created the gay people.  When heterosexuals have children, some of the children are straight and some of the children are gay.  Maybe we should start saying that heterosexual people should abort their gay children before they are  born.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you people realize that it makes no sense to keep saying that people were meant to reproduce so that is why people are not meant to be gay.  Do you understand that heterosexuals reproducing created the gay people.  When heterosexuals have children, some of the children are straight and some of the children are gay.  Maybe we should start saying that heterosexual people should abort their gay children before they are  born.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Anti-gay amendment committee formed by Shocked guest</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13585/anti-gay-amendment-committee-formed/comment-page-1/#comment-40940</link> <dc:creator>Shocked guest</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 04:56:56 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13585#comment-40940</guid> <description>Do you people realize that it makes no sense to keep saying that people were meant to reproduce so that is why people are not meant to be gay.  Do you understand that heterosexuals reproducing created the gay people.  When heterosexuals have children, some of them are straight and some of the children are gay.  Maybe we should start saying that heterosexual people should abort their gay children before they are  born.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you people realize that it makes no sense to keep saying that people were meant to reproduce so that is why people are not meant to be gay.  Do you understand that heterosexuals reproducing created the gay people.  When heterosexuals have children, some of them are straight and some of the children are gay.  Maybe we should start saying that heterosexual people should abort their gay children before they are  born.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on 2011 Person of the Year: Roberta Dunn by Pat</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14002/2011-person-of-the-year-roberta-dunn/comment-page-1/#comment-40938</link> <dc:creator>Pat</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 01:17:18 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14002#comment-40938</guid> <description>Congratulations</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Congratulations</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Editor Matt Comer steps down by Jon Repp</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14176/editor-matt-comer-steps-down/comment-page-1/#comment-40879</link> <dc:creator>Jon Repp</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 14:01:15 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14176#comment-40879</guid> <description>This article is awesome. To hear of Matt&#039;s decision to further follow his heart in service to the GLBT community is purely inspiration.I myself have had awesome miracles and blessing happen in my life. Within the last 6 months I have begun volunteering my talents with Elevation Church and seen my heart and life opened in ways I&#039;d never even dreamed. Ultimately I feel the voice in my heart calling me to further work with those in the  community who struggle with all of life&#039;s struggles. From addiction, to financial, to spiritual I&#039;ve faced the test of them all in my own life first hand. In the end, my test with these great challenges in life have become my testimony to others.That being said, we should all be so inspired to follow our hearts and serve those in need.Congratulations Matt and best of luck!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This article is awesome. To hear of Matt&#8217;s decision to further follow his heart in service to the GLBT community is purely inspiration.</p><p>I myself have had awesome miracles and blessing happen in my life. Within the last 6 months I have begun volunteering my talents with Elevation Church and seen my heart and life opened in ways I&#8217;d never even dreamed. Ultimately I feel the voice in my heart calling me to further work with those in the  community who struggle with all of life&#8217;s struggles. From addiction, to financial, to spiritual I&#8217;ve faced the test of them all in my own life first hand. In the end, my test with these great challenges in life have become my testimony to others.</p><p>That being said, we should all be so inspired to follow our hearts and serve those in need.</p><p>Congratulations Matt and best of luck!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Friday: QNotes Editor Matt Comer to debate local anti-gay leader live and on-air at WBT News-Talk 1110 AM by Jon Repp</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12471/friday-qnotes-editor-matt-comer-to-debate-local-anti-gay-leader-live-and-on-air-at-wbt-news-talk-1110-am/comment-page-1/#comment-40875</link> <dc:creator>Jon Repp</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 13:56:02 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12471#comment-40875</guid> <description>I commend you Matt for standing up to this horrible man filled with HATE. The human race as a whole must all stand together against such hatred and persecution against our fellow men and women merely because of our differences. It is those very differences that make us all special. My heart and prayers are with you as you stand strong. Always remember, you&#039;re never alone.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I commend you Matt for standing up to this horrible man filled with HATE. The human race as a whole must all stand together against such hatred and persecution against our fellow men and women merely because of our differences. It is those very differences that make us all special. My heart and prayers are with you as you stand strong. Always remember, you&#8217;re never alone.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Project to tour state by tina darling</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14204/project-to-tour-state/comment-page-1/#comment-40849</link> <dc:creator>tina darling</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 22:03:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14204#comment-40849</guid> <description>Follow the money!the mormons founded Natl ORg for Marriage and also sponsored the Thurs nite debate.They are corrupt and found guitly on 13 counts for Prop 8.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Follow the money!</p><p>the mormons founded Natl ORg for Marriage and also sponsored the Thurs nite debate.</p><p>They are corrupt and found guitly on 13 counts for Prop 8.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on S.C. to offer LGBT specialty plate by Jagofferisadork</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14156/s-c-to-offer-lgbt-specialty-plate/comment-page-1/#comment-40803</link> <dc:creator>Jagofferisadork</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 02:26:30 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14156#comment-40803</guid> <description>Don&#039;t worry about Jag too much.  He&#039;s all talk.  He takes one for the team every now and then if you know what I mean</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Don&#8217;t worry about Jag too much.  He&#8217;s all talk.  He takes one for the team every now and then if you know what I mean</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on This is not &#8216;goodbye&#8217; by Jake</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14168/this-is-not-goodbye/comment-page-1/#comment-40800</link> <dc:creator>Jake</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 00:54:45 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14168#comment-40800</guid> <description>Thanks for all your great work over the years Matt.  Good luck in your future endeavors.  I&#039;m a big fan of your work over the years, especially when it connects to LGBT interests in the political arena, and also for this article which has stood out for me since I&#039;ve so rarely seen discussion of this idea in NC:http://goqnotes.com/6047/raleighs-avenue-q/Good luck going forwards!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for all your great work over the years Matt.  Good luck in your future endeavors.  I&#8217;m a big fan of your work over the years, especially when it connects to LGBT interests in the political arena, and also for this article which has stood out for me since I&#8217;ve so rarely seen discussion of this idea in NC:</p><p><a
href="http://goqnotes.com/6047/raleighs-avenue-q/" rel="nofollow">http://goqnotes.com/6047/raleighs-avenue-q/</a></p><p>Good luck going forwards!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on S.C. to offer LGBT specialty plate by Natalia</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14156/s-c-to-offer-lgbt-specialty-plate/comment-page-1/#comment-40789</link> <dc:creator>Natalia</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 21:02:41 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14156#comment-40789</guid> <description>I&#039;d happily put one on my car, even with cowards like Jagoffer there walking around.  Might give me a chance to get even with some of you thugs.  It would be funny watching you explain how that chick broke your face.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d happily put one on my car, even with cowards like Jagoffer there walking around.  Might give me a chance to get even with some of you thugs.  It would be funny watching you explain how that chick broke your face.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on S.C. to offer LGBT specialty plate by Jagoffer</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14156/s-c-to-offer-lgbt-specialty-plate/comment-page-1/#comment-40741</link> <dc:creator>Jagoffer</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 01:05:41 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14156#comment-40741</guid> <description>Yes, now I know which cars to key.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, now I know which cars to key.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on S.C. to offer LGBT specialty plate by blackspeak</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14156/s-c-to-offer-lgbt-specialty-plate/comment-page-1/#comment-40740</link> <dc:creator>blackspeak</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 22:47:16 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14156#comment-40740</guid> <description>A way to target gays for abuse and harassment...</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A way to target gays for abuse and harassment&#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by matt</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-40731</link> <dc:creator>matt</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 03:25:49 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-40731</guid> <description>So many &quot;straight&quot; people reading the gay paper.  Curious as how the people on the other side of the fence live?</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So many &#8220;straight&#8221; people reading the gay paper.  Curious as how the people on the other side of the fence live?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Meeting someone outside The GLBT Box by tony</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14100/meeting-someone-outside-the-glbt-box/comment-page-1/#comment-40678</link> <dc:creator>tony</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 16:06:21 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14100#comment-40678</guid> <description>I once shared a podium with the Oxford emeritus professor of psychology.When asked for the best way of finding a mate he said something like &quot;Join a tennis club. I did my research into couples in the fifties so I don&#039;t know its equivalent today. Just spend time with a large group of people who meet to do something they enjoy, somewhere there is little or no alcohol and where you get to talk  without shouting over the music.&quot;I found my partner (i&#039;m gay by the way) at a political meeting and we&#039;ve been together 35 years</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I once shared a podium with the Oxford emeritus professor of psychology.</p><p>When asked for the best way of finding a mate he said something like &#8220;Join a tennis club. I did my research into couples in the fifties so I don&#8217;t know its equivalent today. Just spend time with a large group of people who meet to do something they enjoy, somewhere there is little or no alcohol and where you get to talk  without shouting over the music.&#8221;</p><p>I found my partner (i&#8217;m gay by the way) at a political meeting and we&#8217;ve been together 35 years</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Y alternatives bonus for community by D Grinnan</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14090/y-alternatives-bonus-for-community/comment-page-1/#comment-40675</link> <dc:creator>D Grinnan</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 02:29:49 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14090#comment-40675</guid> <description>I think you are mistaken about Durham&#039;s membership categories. They are:Young Adult (Ages 14 - 28)
Young Adult with Dependents
Adult (Ages 29 - 64)
Adult with Dependents
Senior (Ages 65+)
Senior with Dependentshttp://www.ymcatriangle.org/Durham_YMCAs/Membership.aspx</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you are mistaken about Durham&#8217;s membership categories. They are:</p><p>Young Adult (Ages 14 &#8211; 28)<br
/> Young Adult with Dependents<br
/> Adult (Ages 29 &#8211; 64)<br
/> Adult with Dependents<br
/> Senior (Ages 65+)<br
/> Senior with Dependents</p><p><a
href="http://www.ymcatriangle.org/Durham_YMCAs/Membership.aspx" rel="nofollow">http://www.ymcatriangle.org/Durham_YMCAs/Membership.aspx</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Meeting someone outside The GLBT Box by jdb</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14100/meeting-someone-outside-the-glbt-box/comment-page-1/#comment-40671</link> <dc:creator>jdb</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2012 19:37:57 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14100#comment-40671</guid> <description>RE: Roaming With (Dis)RespectA night out at the bar isn&#039;t ridiculous unless you make it out to be such.  Granted, it doesn&#039;t seem to be your favorite place to spend time, but just because you don&#039;t like it doesn&#039;t make it worthy of your derision or contempt.  That&#039;s sort of like bashing someone because they like green tea (or women) and you don&#039;t.If you have issues with some aspects of LGBT culture and community, it&#039;s better to examine them and see if they are legitimate complaints (as in, bar culture seems overly superficial to me) or rooted in some internalized homophobia that might be contributing to some insecurities (as in, disliking effeminate men because they don&#039;t fit the modern construction of what&#039;s acceptable for males.)For what it&#039;s worth, the advice given you is sound; if you don&#039;t like the bar scene, there are plenty of other places to find kindred souls.  I don&#039;t like going to bars much either and have found &quot;chat&quot; sites to lead me towards self-defeating habits instead of dates.  What I don&#039;t need to do is to ridicule the venues in order to retain my self-worth.  What I did, and perhaps what might work for you, was examine*why* I dislike those things in order to avoid potential pitfalls in other situations as well.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RE: Roaming With (Dis)Respect</p><p>A night out at the bar isn&#8217;t ridiculous unless you make it out to be such.  Granted, it doesn&#8217;t seem to be your favorite place to spend time, but just because you don&#8217;t like it doesn&#8217;t make it worthy of your derision or contempt.  That&#8217;s sort of like bashing someone because they like green tea (or women) and you don&#8217;t.</p><p>If you have issues with some aspects of LGBT culture and community, it&#8217;s better to examine them and see if they are legitimate complaints (as in, bar culture seems overly superficial to me) or rooted in some internalized homophobia that might be contributing to some insecurities (as in, disliking effeminate men because they don&#8217;t fit the modern construction of what&#8217;s acceptable for males.)</p><p>For what it&#8217;s worth, the advice given you is sound; if you don&#8217;t like the bar scene, there are plenty of other places to find kindred souls.  I don&#8217;t like going to bars much either and have found &#8220;chat&#8221; sites to lead me towards self-defeating habits instead of dates.  What I don&#8217;t need to do is to ridicule the venues in order to retain my self-worth.  What I did, and perhaps what might work for you, was examine*why* I dislike those things in order to avoid potential pitfalls in other situations as well.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on QNotes editor Matt Comer to step down by Ken</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14053/qnotes-editor-matt-comer-to-step-down/comment-page-1/#comment-40623</link> <dc:creator>Ken</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 00:51:22 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14053#comment-40623</guid> <description>Thanks to Matt Comer for his useful work!  I look forward to seeing him become even more successful in the future!Being the editor of a small publication is an all but impossible job.  Good luck to the new guy - or gal!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks to Matt Comer for his useful work!  I look forward to seeing him become even more successful in the future!</p><p>Being the editor of a small publication is an all but impossible job.  Good luck to the new guy &#8211; or gal!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Iowa teen argues the good argument by Emily</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13991/iowa-teen-argues-the-good-argument/comment-page-1/#comment-40605</link> <dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 02:52:50 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13991#comment-40605</guid> <description>@PaulaNYCUSFirst, why are you even on a LGBT Media site?Second, despite your vocabulary, your response seems to show how ignorant you are to the real facts.If you want to get technical, most of the world participates in sodomy. Sodomy is defined as sexual intercourse involving anal or oral copulation.
Paraphilia is a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities. Considering same sex intercourse has occurred in all species for as long as anyone can remember, I would say that fits under the definition of normal. Also, there is nothing extreme or dangerous about it. Now, BDSM and activities similar could be classified as extreme, but homosexual couples have just as much typical plain sex as straight couples. The idea that same sex intercourse is dangerous is laughable. No matter who you have sex with, there are health risks. That is why EVERYONE should remember to keep it safe with protection and always get tested.Saying &quot;You people&quot; is derogatory. If you have a fact or opinion, it is easy to state it without using that kind of attitude. It is just as bad to do that to homosexuals as it is to people of different ethnic origins and religions.Homosexuality is not an illness, that has long been proved repeatedly. Those statistics are high because of the pressure surrounding being LGBT. You might get drunk or high if people were constantly harassing you too. If narrow minded people got to vote on whether you could marry the person you love you might get depressed too. If your parents couldn&#039;t accept and love you for the person you are you might kill yourself too. Being gay, lesbian, bisexual, or trans isn&#039;t what does that to the people in this community. The ignorance and hate of people who don&#039;t understand is what causes it. It has nothing to do with our &quot;perversions&quot;. Who we love isn&#039;t perverted. The way the world twists it is. For most of the community, it isn&#039;t even just the sexual desire. It is the fact that they are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually attracted to them as well. The same as any heterosexual relationship. If it was just a perversion, we would be just as happy having sex without marriage. LGBT wouldn&#039;t care about equal rights and acceptance if it was only a sexual impulse. Did you ever think about that? Why fight so hard for equality if its just sex? Because its not. Its more than sex. It is about being yourself and being with who you love.
If you don&#039;t like gay marriage, then don&#039;t marry someone of the same sex. If you don&#039;t like homosexual sex, then don&#039;t participate. But leave the people who do alone. If it doesn&#039;t involve you then you have no right to tell someone that its wrong and that they don&#039;t deserve their rights.Going back in the closet doesn&#039;t change the fact that we are this way. We are still gay no matter if we are closeted or not.I am proud of who I am, and I will not hide it and be ashamed. It is you who should be ashamed. I pity you for your ignorance and hope one day you may see the truth, not a fearful and uninformed delusion.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@PaulaNYCUS</p><p>First, why are you even on a LGBT Media site?</p><p>Second, despite your vocabulary, your response seems to show how ignorant you are to the real facts.</p><p>If you want to get technical, most of the world participates in sodomy. Sodomy is defined as sexual intercourse involving anal or oral copulation.<br
/> Paraphilia is a condition characterized by abnormal sexual desires, typically involving extreme or dangerous activities. Considering same sex intercourse has occurred in all species for as long as anyone can remember, I would say that fits under the definition of normal. Also, there is nothing extreme or dangerous about it. Now, BDSM and activities similar could be classified as extreme, but homosexual couples have just as much typical plain sex as straight couples. The idea that same sex intercourse is dangerous is laughable. No matter who you have sex with, there are health risks. That is why EVERYONE should remember to keep it safe with protection and always get tested.</p><p>Saying &#8220;You people&#8221; is derogatory. If you have a fact or opinion, it is easy to state it without using that kind of attitude. It is just as bad to do that to homosexuals as it is to people of different ethnic origins and religions.</p><p>Homosexuality is not an illness, that has long been proved repeatedly. Those statistics are high because of the pressure surrounding being LGBT. You might get drunk or high if people were constantly harassing you too. If narrow minded people got to vote on whether you could marry the person you love you might get depressed too. If your parents couldn&#8217;t accept and love you for the person you are you might kill yourself too. Being gay, lesbian, bisexual, or trans isn&#8217;t what does that to the people in this community. The ignorance and hate of people who don&#8217;t understand is what causes it. It has nothing to do with our &#8220;perversions&#8221;. Who we love isn&#8217;t perverted. The way the world twists it is. For most of the community, it isn&#8217;t even just the sexual desire. It is the fact that they are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually attracted to them as well. The same as any heterosexual relationship. If it was just a perversion, we would be just as happy having sex without marriage. LGBT wouldn&#8217;t care about equal rights and acceptance if it was only a sexual impulse. Did you ever think about that? Why fight so hard for equality if its just sex? Because its not. Its more than sex. It is about being yourself and being with who you love.<br
/> If you don&#8217;t like gay marriage, then don&#8217;t marry someone of the same sex. If you don&#8217;t like homosexual sex, then don&#8217;t participate. But leave the people who do alone. If it doesn&#8217;t involve you then you have no right to tell someone that its wrong and that they don&#8217;t deserve their rights.</p><p>Going back in the closet doesn&#8217;t change the fact that we are this way. We are still gay no matter if we are closeted or not.</p><p>I am proud of who I am, and I will not hide it and be ashamed. It is you who should be ashamed. I pity you for your ignorance and hope one day you may see the truth, not a fearful and uninformed delusion.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on James Buchanan: America&#8217;s first gay president? by Cyth</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12670/james-buchanan-americas-first-gay-president/comment-page-1/#comment-40422</link> <dc:creator>Cyth</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 28 Dec 2011 18:49:11 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12670#comment-40422</guid> <description>@Savannah:
What, pray tell, in your statement would incline anyone to believe that you have any information on Buchanan whatsoever? Is it your shoddy grammar? Your professed relation to the man? Your unevidenced rebuffing of a well-researched viewpoint?
Futhermore, if you have such damning evidence in your possession, or know a family member who has it, why have you not come forward with this proof? I&#039;m sure that historians of the American past would just gobble that up. We&#039;ve already considered that he was married to a woman whom he may or may not have had sex with. Same goes for Clay Aiken. Gays are not mystically prevented from marrying heterosexually.
I&#039;m not suggesting you&#039;re wrong, I&#039;d just like to see a little more intellectual backing here.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Savannah:<br
/> What, pray tell, in your statement would incline anyone to believe that you have any information on Buchanan whatsoever? Is it your shoddy grammar? Your professed relation to the man? Your unevidenced rebuffing of a well-researched viewpoint?<br
/> Futhermore, if you have such damning evidence in your possession, or know a family member who has it, why have you not come forward with this proof? I&#8217;m sure that historians of the American past would just gobble that up. We&#8217;ve already considered that he was married to a woman whom he may or may not have had sex with. Same goes for Clay Aiken. Gays are not mystically prevented from marrying heterosexually.<br
/> I&#8217;m not suggesting you&#8217;re wrong, I&#8217;d just like to see a little more intellectual backing here.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Amendment made for rollercoaster year by Jake</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14004/amendment-made-for-rollercoaster-year/comment-page-1/#comment-40320</link> <dc:creator>Jake</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 06:06:25 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14004#comment-40320</guid> <description>&quot;LGBT advocates and grassroots activists knew they were up for a challenge the moment election results started rolling in November 2010’s midterm elections.&quot;It&#039;s too bad more people didn&#039;t see this challenge coming before the 2010 election.  While not 100% of Dems are for equality, I can&#039;t think of any GOP representative who has consistently voted against inequality.  Even the libertarian republican who said he would vote against it, gave a vote for it in one of the readings.I hope this is remembered as the 2012 elections come around.  If we beat the amendment, we have to keep them from trying to put it on the ballot again during an off year like 2014.  If we lose, we have to remember things can get worse.  We&#039;ve got to change things up, and get more pro-equality leadership for the House &amp; Senate, because leadership is so key on whether this stuff ends up in committees &amp; dead, or ends up on the ballot.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;LGBT advocates and grassroots activists knew they were up for a challenge the moment election results started rolling in November 2010’s midterm elections.&#8221;</p><p>It&#8217;s too bad more people didn&#8217;t see this challenge coming before the 2010 election.  While not 100% of Dems are for equality, I can&#8217;t think of any GOP representative who has consistently voted against inequality.  Even the libertarian republican who said he would vote against it, gave a vote for it in one of the readings.</p><p>I hope this is remembered as the 2012 elections come around.  If we beat the amendment, we have to keep them from trying to put it on the ballot again during an off year like 2014.  If we lose, we have to remember things can get worse.  We&#8217;ve got to change things up, and get more pro-equality leadership for the House &amp; Senate, because leadership is so key on whether this stuff ends up in committees &amp; dead, or ends up on the ballot.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Iowa teen argues the good argument by PaulaNYCUS</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13991/iowa-teen-argues-the-good-argument/comment-page-1/#comment-40316</link> <dc:creator>PaulaNYCUS</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 04:55:11 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13991#comment-40316</guid> <description>WHY is it that society has to accomodate the paraphilia of the sodomites?  And you know its a paraphila, despite what the APA may have ruled in the vote in 1973; that was politics, not science.You people are ill.  You have a higher suicide rate,  higher rates of alcohol and drug abuse, depression, etc.  Most of that is attributable to your sexual perversions.Go back in your closets if you know what&#039;s good for you.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WHY is it that society has to accomodate the paraphilia of the sodomites?  And you know its a paraphila, despite what the APA may have ruled in the vote in 1973; that was politics, not science.</p><p>You people are ill.  You have a higher suicide rate,  higher rates of alcohol and drug abuse, depression, etc.  Most of that is attributable to your sexual perversions.</p><p>Go back in your closets if you know what&#8217;s good for you.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Openly gay sailor reinstated by Paul Pierson</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14033/openly-gay-sailor-reinstated/comment-page-1/#comment-40288</link> <dc:creator>Paul Pierson</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 03:45:37 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14033#comment-40288</guid> <description>Actually, I think you might find that Jeremy K.B. Johnson, a sailor in Maryland, may very well be the first to be reinstated.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Actually, I think you might find that Jeremy K.B. Johnson, a sailor in Maryland, may very well be the first to be reinstated.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on &#8216;Ex-gay&#8217; leader named person of the year by Kit</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13950/ex-gay-leader-named-person-of-the-year/comment-page-1/#comment-40257</link> <dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2011 22:25:53 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13950#comment-40257</guid> <description>The same Alan Chambers who is so self hating that he chooses to lie to the entire world rather than admit he&#039;s gay.  How many people and leaders from these fake organizations came out last year saying they were gay and they never knew anyone who &quot;converted&quot;.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The same Alan Chambers who is so self hating that he chooses to lie to the entire world rather than admit he&#8217;s gay.  How many people and leaders from these fake organizations came out last year saying they were gay and they never knew anyone who &#8220;converted&#8221;.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Group criticizes Bank of America, Cisco for rehiring anti-gay activist by Kit</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13959/group-criticizes-bank-of-america-cisco-for-rehiring-anti-gay-activist/comment-page-1/#comment-40256</link> <dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 23 Dec 2011 22:20:53 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13959#comment-40256</guid> <description>Mary hate is not a right of birth and unlike one&#039;s sexual orientation can be changed.  Twisting the truth is a common Christianist practice.  You aren&#039;t very good at it!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary hate is not a right of birth and unlike one&#8217;s sexual orientation can be changed.  Twisting the truth is a common Christianist practice.  You aren&#8217;t very good at it!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Group criticizes Bank of America, Cisco for rehiring anti-gay activist by Jeff</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13959/group-criticizes-bank-of-america-cisco-for-rehiring-anti-gay-activist/comment-page-1/#comment-40087</link> <dc:creator>Jeff</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:50:25 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13959#comment-40087</guid> <description>Mary, if someone is willing to persecute, they deserve to be singled out and treated accordingly.  He was not &quot;born that way&quot; at all.  He may have been brainwashed, though, so he may have some sort of excuse.  But that does not entitle him to persecute...there never is an excuse for that.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mary, if someone is willing to persecute, they deserve to be singled out and treated accordingly.  He was not &#8220;born that way&#8221; at all.  He may have been brainwashed, though, so he may have some sort of excuse.  But that does not entitle him to persecute&#8230;there never is an excuse for that.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Group criticizes Bank of America, Cisco for rehiring anti-gay activist by Mary Waterton</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13959/group-criticizes-bank-of-america-cisco-for-rehiring-anti-gay-activist/comment-page-1/#comment-40082</link> <dc:creator>Mary Waterton</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 17:51:41 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13959#comment-40082</guid> <description>Oh! So the gay activists want to DISCRIMINATE against anti-gay activists who, after all, are &quot;born that way&quot; too.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh! So the gay activists want to DISCRIMINATE against anti-gay activists who, after all, are &#8220;born that way&#8221; too.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by KJ</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-40059</link> <dc:creator>KJ</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 19:26:49 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-40059</guid> <description>All of these intollarant self-rightious haters spew so-called &quot;love&quot;, as long as it is all on their terms &amp; fits their views. But, let anyone different from them ask for the same rights &amp; they all turn onto bashing nazis.  Isn&#039;t it how funny &amp; ironic that the so-called fundamentalists work ?  And yes, I am also a straight male. Hatred IS fear &amp; ignorance.Obviously, your version of Christ&#039;s teachings are as blind as your ignorance.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All of these intollarant self-rightious haters spew so-called &#8220;love&#8221;, as long as it is all on their terms &amp; fits their views. But, let anyone different from them ask for the same rights &amp; they all turn onto bashing nazis.  Isn&#8217;t it how funny &amp; ironic that the so-called fundamentalists work ?  And yes, I am also a straight male. Hatred IS fear &amp; ignorance.</p><p>Obviously, your version of Christ&#8217;s teachings are as blind as your ignorance.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on &#8216;Ex-gay&#8217; leader named person of the year by Michael Bussee</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13950/ex-gay-leader-named-person-of-the-year/comment-page-1/#comment-40058</link> <dc:creator>Michael Bussee</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 18 Dec 2011 19:19:06 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13950#comment-40058</guid> <description>Person of the year? Gimme a break. This is the same Alan Chambers who ignored the warnings about sending Exodus Board Member (Don Schmierer) to Uganda to speak alongside Scott Lively. The same Alan Chambers who took nearly a year and a half to apologize and to officially oppose criminanlization. The same Alan Chambers who opposes all hate crime laws -- and who opposes all anti-bullying programs in schools, calling them &quot;tools to crush Christian evangelism&quot;. The same Alan Chambers who opposes equal civil rights for LGBT people and who misleads the public about sexual orientation change. The same Alan Chambers who calls NARTH an &quot;excellent, scientific organization&quot;. I could go on...</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Person of the year? Gimme a break. This is the same Alan Chambers who ignored the warnings about sending Exodus Board Member (Don Schmierer) to Uganda to speak alongside Scott Lively. The same Alan Chambers who took nearly a year and a half to apologize and to officially oppose criminanlization. The same Alan Chambers who opposes all hate crime laws &#8212; and who opposes all anti-bullying programs in schools, calling them &#8220;tools to crush Christian evangelism&#8221;. The same Alan Chambers who opposes equal civil rights for LGBT people and who misleads the public about sexual orientation change. The same Alan Chambers who calls NARTH an &#8220;excellent, scientific organization&#8221;. I could go on&#8230;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by Ken</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39987</link> <dc:creator>Ken</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 21:38:22 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39987</guid> <description>Only LGBT ?  You BIGOTS!  You forgot the QLMNROP!And what about the Bes (to distinguish them from the other B)?  You know, the Bestiophiles?
and wait!  What about the P&#039;s?  You know, pedophiles are people too!  Shouldn&#039;t THEY be allowed to love?I swear, people are SOOOO hung up on sex. Everything should be allowed to love everything else.Dolphins, elephants, fungus, knot holes,  little boys, it&#039;s all the same.If a man wants to marry his gerbil, who are you to judge?  Crazy bigots!-Ken</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Only LGBT ?  You BIGOTS!  You forgot the QLMNROP!</p><p> And what about the Bes (to distinguish them from the other B)?  You know, the Bestiophiles?<br
/> and wait!  What about the P&#8217;s?  You know, pedophiles are people too!  Shouldn&#8217;t THEY be allowed to love?</p><p>I swear, people are SOOOO hung up on sex. Everything should be allowed to love everything else.</p><p>Dolphins, elephants, fungus, knot holes,  little boys, it&#8217;s all the same.</p><p>If a man wants to marry his gerbil, who are you to judge?  Crazy bigots!</p><p>-Ken</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by bubba brown</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39985</link> <dc:creator>bubba brown</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 21:09:46 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39985</guid> <description>The people here so opposed to having lifestyles flaunted before them I ask Why?  This world as crazy a quilt as it is, singling out gays for a smirk&#039;s fickle.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The people here so opposed to having lifestyles flaunted before them I ask Why?  This world as crazy a quilt as it is, singling out gays for a smirk&#8217;s fickle.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by Shane</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39978</link> <dc:creator>Shane</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 03:28:57 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39978</guid> <description>Let them marry. They should be as miserable as the rest of us.
I agree with Chris though. I don&#039;t want their lifestyle in my face each way I look.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let them marry. They should be as miserable as the rest of us.<br
/> I agree with Chris though. I don&#8217;t want their lifestyle in my face each way I look.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by Chris</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39974</link> <dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 20:56:36 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39974</guid> <description>I don&#039;t have a problem with the ads.  I do have a problem about not being able to opt out.  To get rid of them.Tolerance is a 2 way street.  You have to accept the fact that I disagree with your lifestyle choices.  You have to accept me as much as you want acceptance for doing what you are doing.What that means.  Is I don&#039;t care.  I don&#039;t want to see it.  Interact with it, or be a part of it.That means i dont want to see it on TV.  I dont want to see in movies.  I dont want to see it ads that i can&#039;t turn off.There should be an option for me to turn your lifestyle off and not be exposed to it.I am not saying that you should stop what your doing or that its wrong,  but i should have an option to remove it from my life.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t have a problem with the ads.  I do have a problem about not being able to opt out.  To get rid of them.</p><p>Tolerance is a 2 way street.  You have to accept the fact that I disagree with your lifestyle choices.  You have to accept me as much as you want acceptance for doing what you are doing.</p><p>What that means.  Is I don&#8217;t care.  I don&#8217;t want to see it.  Interact with it, or be a part of it.</p><p>That means i dont want to see it on TV.  I dont want to see in movies.  I dont want to see it ads that i can&#8217;t turn off.</p><p>There should be an option for me to turn your lifestyle off and not be exposed to it.</p><p>I am not saying that you should stop what your doing or that its wrong,  but i should have an option to remove it from my life.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by Todd</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39972</link> <dc:creator>Todd</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 19:20:06 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39972</guid> <description>I stepped in pooh once...accidentally. Why would two people intentionally waller in it?</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I stepped in pooh once&#8230;accidentally. Why would two people intentionally waller in it?</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by Dan Hickerson</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39963</link> <dc:creator>Dan Hickerson</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 15:27:18 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39963</guid> <description>A question for the previous two commenters, Mo Hardin and Maiden:Why does the idea of someone else living a happy, fulfilled life with the person that he or she loves make you so angry? Are you so miserable and filled with hatred that you want everyone else to feel the same way?I am a happily married, straight man. I want anyone, gay or straight, to be able to experience the joy of being married to the love of ones life, just as I have. I feel sorry for anyone whose mind is so closed and bitter that they wish unhappiness on others who have done no harm to them.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A question for the previous two commenters, Mo Hardin and Maiden:</p><p>Why does the idea of someone else living a happy, fulfilled life with the person that he or she loves make you so angry? Are you so miserable and filled with hatred that you want everyone else to feel the same way?</p><p>I am a happily married, straight man. I want anyone, gay or straight, to be able to experience the joy of being married to the love of ones life, just as I have. I feel sorry for anyone whose mind is so closed and bitter that they wish unhappiness on others who have done no harm to them.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by Maiden</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39962</link> <dc:creator>Maiden</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 13:54:13 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39962</guid> <description>And that&#039;s when we cancelled our subscription</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And that&#8217;s when we cancelled our subscription</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Marriage ads debut on CharlotteObserver.com by Mo Hardin</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13966/marriage-ads-debut-on-charlotteobserver-com/comment-page-1/#comment-39961</link> <dc:creator>Mo Hardin</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 13:23:28 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13966#comment-39961</guid> <description>Promoting and spreading you mental illness all over. Disgusting. GET HELP</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Promoting and spreading you mental illness all over. Disgusting. GET HELP</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Writer: Mayfield&#8217;s election sign of &#8216;New South&#8217; by mbh</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13935/writer-mayfields-election-sign-of-new-south/comment-page-1/#comment-39954</link> <dc:creator>mbh</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 02:08:18 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13935#comment-39954</guid> <description>What a sad commentary on politics and society that this newly elected official&#039;s only attribute is that she is openly gay. If that is all she has to her credit (or discredit depending on your perspective), then why was she voted in. If the incumbant was so bad, why didn&#039;t anyone else run against him - like someone else who has left comments on this article.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a sad commentary on politics and society that this newly elected official&#8217;s only attribute is that she is openly gay. If that is all she has to her credit (or discredit depending on your perspective), then why was she voted in. If the incumbant was so bad, why didn&#8217;t anyone else run against him &#8211; like someone else who has left comments on this article.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Writer: Mayfield&#8217;s election sign of &#8216;New South&#8217; by Lawanna Neighbor</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13935/writer-mayfields-election-sign-of-new-south/comment-page-1/#comment-39945</link> <dc:creator>Lawanna Neighbor</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 17:09:12 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13935#comment-39945</guid> <description>I have to agree with Daffy - it doesn&#039;t say anything new about the south or district 3. Councilman Turner&#039;s corruption finally got to the point the voters of this district tossed him. This was the first election since I&#039;ve been here that he even had an opponent. The only other opponenets were white men and that doesn&#039;t play in this district. She won on racist voters, not high mindedness. I have been active in this community and can tell you first hand that Ms. Mayfield has not been engaged in her community. I doubt much will change when she&#039;s on council. Judging from my previous interactions with her, I don&#039;t think she&#039;s capable of facilitating the agenda she proposes. I hope I&#039;m wrong, but I sincerely doubt it. I wish we as voters would quit playing identity politics and start voting for competent candidates who will improve things for us all.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have to agree with Daffy &#8211; it doesn&#8217;t say anything new about the south or district 3. Councilman Turner&#8217;s corruption finally got to the point the voters of this district tossed him. This was the first election since I&#8217;ve been here that he even had an opponent. The only other opponenets were white men and that doesn&#8217;t play in this district. She won on racist voters, not high mindedness. I have been active in this community and can tell you first hand that Ms. Mayfield has not been engaged in her community. I doubt much will change when she&#8217;s on council. Judging from my previous interactions with her, I don&#8217;t think she&#8217;s capable of facilitating the agenda she proposes. I hope I&#8217;m wrong, but I sincerely doubt it. I wish we as voters would quit playing identity politics and start voting for competent candidates who will improve things for us all.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Writer: Mayfield&#8217;s election sign of &#8216;New South&#8217; by Joe Joe</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13935/writer-mayfields-election-sign-of-new-south/comment-page-1/#comment-39941</link> <dc:creator>Joe Joe</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 11:45:32 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13935#comment-39941</guid> <description>An openly gay lesbian black afro american huh? Well I&#039;ll be darned!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An openly gay lesbian black afro american huh? Well I&#8217;ll be darned!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Writer: Mayfield&#8217;s election sign of &#8216;New South&#8217; by Daffy Duck</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13935/writer-mayfields-election-sign-of-new-south/comment-page-1/#comment-39924</link> <dc:creator>Daffy Duck</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 04:32:32 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13935#comment-39924</guid> <description>Interesting...So the south gets a gold star over one gay politician?Remember 2008? ..and this was in California:&lt;b&gt;A lot of Obama/Yes-on-8 voters? The Associated Press exit polls show that African Americans and Latinos backed Proposition 8 in good numbers. Details here from AP:California&#039;s black and Latino voters, who turned out in droves for Barack Obama, also provided key support in favor of the state&#039;s same-sex marriage ban. Seven in 10 black voters backed a successful ballot measure to overturn the California Supreme Court&#039;s May decision allowing same-sex marriage, according to exit polls for The Associated Press.&lt;/b&gt;</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting&#8230;</p><p>So the south gets a gold star over one gay politician?</p><p>Remember 2008? ..and this was in California:</p><p><b>A lot of Obama/Yes-on-8 voters? The Associated Press exit polls show that African Americans and Latinos backed Proposition 8 in good numbers. Details here from AP:</p><p>California&#8217;s black and Latino voters, who turned out in droves for Barack Obama, also provided key support in favor of the state&#8217;s same-sex marriage ban. Seven in 10 black voters backed a successful ballot measure to overturn the California Supreme Court&#8217;s May decision allowing same-sex marriage, according to exit polls for The Associated Press.</b></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Anti-gay amendment committee formed by guest</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13585/anti-gay-amendment-committee-formed/comment-page-1/#comment-39855</link> <dc:creator>guest</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2011 23:06:29 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13585#comment-39855</guid> <description>Homosexuality is a life style, you are not born Gay, if you were born Gay you would have both Genitals naturally, Nobody is born gay, Nobody is born Alcoholic, Nobody is Born Killer, or adulterer, and certainly nobody is born gay, you have to commit Gay act of having intercourse with same sex for you to be Gay, you can be man and be balerina for all I care that does not make you Gay, so Gay is an act and a life style, and it is a choice,if everyone was Gay we would go extinct, no pro creation, no natural birth..what an evil satanic way to live is not only to be Gay, but to force gay agenda and thinking on others..especially kids in school, this is how you know that Nation is going down and there will be no exceptions, nations have been destroyed for Gay tolerance in past, same will be done to any nation NO EXCEPTIONS.even animals do not practice such thing.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Homosexuality is a life style, you are not born Gay, if you were born Gay you would have both Genitals naturally, Nobody is born gay, Nobody is born Alcoholic, Nobody is Born Killer, or adulterer, and certainly nobody is born gay, you have to commit Gay act of having intercourse with same sex for you to be Gay, you can be man and be balerina for all I care that does not make you Gay, so Gay is an act and a life style, and it is a choice,</p><p>if everyone was Gay we would go extinct, no pro creation, no natural birth..what an evil satanic way to live is not only to be Gay, but to force gay agenda and thinking on others..especially kids in school, this is how you know that Nation is going down and there will be no exceptions, nations have been destroyed for Gay tolerance in past, same will be done to any nation NO EXCEPTIONS.</p><p>even animals do not practice such thing.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Being gay is a gift from God by Tom</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13909/being-gay-is-a-gift-from-god/comment-page-1/#comment-39837</link> <dc:creator>Tom</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 12:58:43 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13909#comment-39837</guid> <description>Trinity,You are exactly the kind of writer I&#039;ve been waiting to read--smart, common-sense, funny, compassionate and of course, gay. I definitely like you.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Trinity,</p><p>You are exactly the kind of writer I&#8217;ve been waiting to read&#8211;smart, common-sense, funny, compassionate and of course, gay. I definitely like you.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Open letter to Mecklenburg County Commissioner Harold Cogdell, Jr. by Michael Reilly</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13709/open-letter-to-mecklenburg-county-commissioner-harold-cogdell-jr/comment-page-1/#comment-39813</link> <dc:creator>Michael Reilly</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 16:41:07 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13709#comment-39813</guid> <description>Matt,
excellent open letter. thank you for your tireless and wonderful work you do for all of us.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Matt,<br
/> excellent open letter. thank you for your tireless and wonderful work you do for all of us.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Raleigh passes resolution opposing amendment (video) by RaleighRob</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13762/raleigh-passes-resolution-opposing-amendment/comment-page-1/#comment-39665</link> <dc:creator>RaleighRob</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 17:36:03 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13762#comment-39665</guid> <description>It&#039;s heartwarming to know that my city stands for equality.  Even as this state continues to fall backwards, at least the Triangle attempts to move forwards instead!</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s heartwarming to know that my city stands for equality.  Even as this state continues to fall backwards, at least the Triangle attempts to move forwards instead!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>Comment on Bar: Allegations of wrongdoing after stabbing incident &#8216;simply not true&#8217; by NZviaNY</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13754/bar-allegations-of-wrongdoing-during-stabbing-incident-simply-not-true/comment-page-1/#comment-39662</link> <dc:creator>NZviaNY</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 16:52:38 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13754#comment-39662</guid> <description>I disagree. It shows that Hartigans is trying to help the family in the best ways they can. They couldn&#039;t stop the incident, tragedys happen but they are tying to help the victims family.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I disagree. It shows that Hartigans is trying to help the family in the best ways they can. They couldn&#8217;t stop the incident, tragedys happen but they are tying to help the victims family.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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