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Are one-night stands wrong?

April 11, 2014 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “My sister gets on my case about my one-night stands. When I tell her it’s normal for men, she guilt-trips me. Should I feel guilty?”

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Finding your own wisdom and common sense

March 28, 2014 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “I’ve been following your column for years now. You’re so wise! How can I acquire wisdom and common sense like you?”

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Boyfriend wants more ‘attention,’ open relationship

March 14, 2014 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “I’m 23 and never sexually satisfied. The better sex gets with my boyfriend, the more I want it with everyone else. The other day we did it five times and when he fell asleep at night, all I wanted to do was knock on all of my hot neighbor’s doors and have them @#*% the hell out of me. I’ve tried to talk my boyfriend into having an open relationship, but he doesn’t want it. We love each other, but lately I feel that my butt has been taking command of my life. What should I do?”

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Should gay men be allowed to use “she” to describe “he?”

February 28, 2014 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “Why do so many gay men use the pronouns she and he so interchangeably, for example: ‘I love Mike. She decorates fabulously. He also cooks well. I just love her bubble butt too.’ Why, why, why?”

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The “getting dumped, dumping someone and why it’s always your fault” issue

February 14, 2014 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “A year and a half ago, my boyfriend left me with no explanation. And, he wouldn’t even return my phone calls or answer his door. Then he moved. Fast forward to a year later with his new boyfriend on his arm, he returns. I liked his new boyfriend, but I still never got my overdue closure. Now, I have their number to finally get closure. Should I call?”

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Are singles just play ponies for married men

January 31, 2014 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “I met a guy who asked me out, but after we had sex, he told me he was married. Why do we singles end up being play ponies for the married elite?”

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Can you be dumped to death?

January 3, 2014 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “I almost made it to the one-year mark, but my girlfriend couldn’t. I’ve been dumped before, but this time I really was in love. It feels like someone died. I bounce between sad and angry. How long does this feeling last?”

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The bar, the greatest date and the unreturned phone calls

December 20, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “I went to the bar, met the greatest guy and had the greatest night. But, I had to work the next day, so we exchanged numbers. Great, right? Well, I’ve called three times in four days and nothing. And, this isn’t the first time it’s happened. Is it me, him, the places I go or just bad karma?”

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Open relationships vs. cheating

December 6, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader writes: “There’s no such thing as an open relationship. A relationship is a contract, a commitment and if that contract is broken, there’s no relationship. So, if my boyfriend came home after screwing around then told me he loved me, I’d ram a pipe up his backside!”

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Trusting your boyfriend’s secrets

November 22, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “My boyfriend of several months insists on staying at my place. I don’t mind, but he refuses to let me see his home, claiming the family he lives with are total slobs. I respect his wishes, but I have a difficult time trusting someone so secretive. Am I being obsessive or scammed?”

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What it really means to stand someone up

November 8, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Lainey Millen

A reader asks: “I stood someone up, but apologized and now he won’t answer my calls. What’s the big deal? I called 24 hours later and I had a good excuse?”

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The boyfriend, his pets and my tiny apartment

October 25, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A readers writes: One month into dating his job was cut and “to save money,” he and his two pets moved into my tiny one bedroom apartment. Well, now six months later, I still love him, but I want my place back. He never pays rent or utilities and anytime I bring up “moving,” it ends up a bad scene. I just want some time “alone.”

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Transsexuals, cross dressers and drag queens, oh my

October 11, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader writes: “I just moved from the country to the city and I’m confused about the differences between transsexuals, cross dressers and drag queens.”

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Can a top have bottom pleasures?

September 27, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “I consider myself a strict top, but recently had an encounter with another top and I’ve been enjoying that side now and then. I find it pleasurable. Yet, now I am wondering if this activity makes me a bottom?”

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Does a 30-year-old virgin need counseling?

September 13, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “At 14, I suffered from a colonic disease and had a colonic bag attached to my side. Now, at 30, I’m still a virgin. I recently decided to explore dating ads and websites, but I’m still very nervous. So, I’ve decided to go to counseling and was wondering if you think counseling is a good idea?”

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Can an ex cheat on you if you’re not dating

August 30, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “I was with this girl for a month until I found out she was telling other people she was single. Now, I found out that she’s in a threeway with two other women. Isn’t that cheating? And, do we have a chance of getting back together? I still love her!”

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I love him, I love him not

August 16, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “For the past two months, I’ve been dating two men whom I really like. One is fun and exciting, the other quiet and charming. I can’t decide which one to keep! What do you think?”

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Dining with the finest of queens

August 2, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader writes: My lover says I eat like an animal and won’t dine out with me anymore until I learn how to “act like a cultured man.” What’s the big deal?

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Leaving on a jet plane, don’t know when…

July 19, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader asks: “My woman and I broke up. It got so sour that we ended up in court. Now, she’s dissing my name all over town. How do I stay where I am ‘til all the gossip stops?”

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At least acknowledge me

July 5, 2013 in Tell Trinity by Trinity

A reader writes: “After seeing your wonderful performance in Wilton Manors, Fla., a few months back, I went backstage to see you. You greeted everyone but me. Why didn’t you acknowledge me?”