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Provincetown, Russian River, Fort Lauderdale, oh, my!
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May 12th, 2012 Comments (0)

A reader writes: The love of my life and I are starting to make plans for our gay honeymoon. What would you suggest?

My ex is back and he wants to… date!
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April 28th, 2012 Comments (0)

A reader asks, “My ex just moved back to my area after being away for seven months! Not a call or a letter, nothing! Now, he wants to get back together. Don’t you think seven months is too long to keep someone hanging and expect them to get back together?”

Young, gifted and gay!
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April 14th, 2012 Comments (0)

I’m writing to you because I’m 18, gay and live in a small town. There’s not a lot for me to do. It seems that if you’re not drinking age or live in a big city, you’re considered a gay outcast. Sometimes, I think there’s no place for me! Help!

So your husband wants to do drag
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March 31st, 2012 Comments (0)

Suddenly, out of nowhere, my partner wants to do drag. Is there anything I can say to change his mind?

Your secret’s not safe with me
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March 17th, 2012 Comments (0)

My best friend won’t talk to me anymore because I told someone something about her that I swore I would never tell. Don’t you think it’s wrong to give up a longtime friendship just because someone slipped?

Oh, no, not drag!
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March 3rd, 2012 Comments (0)

Recently, a guy I’ve been dating just told me he did drag. He’s so masculine. I never suspected it. I’m afraid that seeing him in drag will ruin my sexual attraction for him. What should I do?

How to get around rejection
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February 18th, 2012 Comments (0)

To Trinity, I’m an attractive, fun, well-off gay man. I think I’m a catch, but I can’t seem to get a catch. What’s wrong with me? Catcher Without A Catch, Atlanta, GA To Catcher Without A Catch, The only two reasons you might have troubles are, you don’t try very [...]

To tell the truth or to shut up?
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February 4th, 2012 Comments (0)

A reader asks, “My new girlfriend has a four-year-old daughter that she conceived by sleeping with a man just to get pregnant. She has never told the father or the daughter about each other. I feel strongly that they both have a right to know. My girlfriend disagrees and never intends to tell either one of them. What do you think and should I tell him?”

Is there more than one rule?
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January 21st, 2012 Comments (0)

A reader asks, “Why do gay people and straight people think about monogamy so differently?”

Meeting someone outside The GLBT Box
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January 7th, 2012 Comments (2)

A reader asks, “I’m 36, fun, good-looking and very educated. I just can’t go to GLBT bars, chat rooms or any other ridiculous place GLBT people go to meet each other. So, how can I meet my match without dumping my self-respect?”

You are one in a million
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December 24th, 2011 Comments (0)

A reader needs some advice, asking, “I seem to be on an unlucky streak. I lost my job, my lover and now I’m being evicted. The only thing good in my life is my health and my cat. What do you do in times like these?”

Being gay is a gift from God
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December 10th, 2011 Comments (1)

A reader asks, “Very simply, I’m gay! There it is! I said it. Am I going to Hell!?”

When in Rome do as the Romans do
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November 26th, 2011 Comments (0)

A reader has a major family dilemma, and asks, “Recently, I moved in with my father and his new wife. But, she wants me to be quiet about being gay. She’s afraid she will lose custody of her grandchildren because a gay man is living in her house. I told her it won’t happen. It’s against the law. Unfortunately, I don’t have a job or the money to move. What should I do?”

Chat rooms, gay bars and coffee shops, oh my!
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A reader poses, “After dating the same woman for three years, I recently found out that she cheated on me. I love her and don’t want to lose her, but what about my integrity and my pride. She doesn’t know I know. What should I do?

When your best friend is too nosey
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A reader from Raleigh inquires: “I’ve been reading about your ‘liberal’ advise on extra marital affairs with men already in relationships! Don’t you think advocating extra marital affairs is despicable and mindless, especially for an internationally syndicated advise columnist?”

Love at first sight isn’t easy with glasses?
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A four-eyed dilemma: A reader asks, “My best friend keeps pushing me to get rid of my glasses and get contacts. He says it will help my dating life and my sex life. But, what’s wrong with glasses?”

The secret spell of the drag queens
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Talk about sibling rivalry! A reader asks, “I’ve been dating this guy off and on for almost a year, but then I met his brother. Now, I have been fooling around with his brother behind his back. Am I bad or is it his brother’s fault?”

When someone is screwing someone behind someone’s back
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A reader has a very difficult situation indeed, and asks, “My boyfriend moved into a house with four other gay men. Now, he hardly wants to be with me anymore. He also won’t talk about it. Help!”

Why can’t we all just get along?
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September 3rd, 2011 Comments (3)

A reader asks, “All this complaining and inside fighting between the gay men, lesbian and bisexual community over the “transgender” community makes gay rights so much less powerful! Don’t you agree?”

Subliminal message may cure age-a-phobia
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A fib-telling reader inquires for a solution: “This may sound juvenile, but I’m afraid to tell my girlfriend that I’m younger than I said I was. I’m afraid she’ll dump me. She always says, ‘I really like that you’re older than me.’ And, so on. What should I do?”

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