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><channel><title>QNotes &#187; Tell Trinity</title> <atom:link href="http://goqnotes.com/to/arts-entertainment/tell-trinity/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://goqnotes.com</link> <description>Carolina LGBT arts, entertainment, news, views</description> <lastBuildDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 22:05:51 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1</generator> <item><title>To tell the truth or to shut up?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14317/to-tell-the-truth-or-to-shut-up/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/14317/to-tell-the-truth-or-to-shut-up/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 05:01:54 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14317</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "My new girlfriend has a four-year-old daughter that she conceived by sleeping with a man just to get pregnant. She has never told the father or the daughter about each other. I feel strongly that they both have a right to know. My girlfriend disagrees and never intends to tell either one of them. What do you think and should I tell him?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/14317/to-tell-the-truth-or-to-shut-up/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Is there more than one rule?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14185/is-there-more-than-one-rule/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/14185/is-there-more-than-one-rule/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 05:01:09 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14185</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "Why do gay people and straight people think about monogamy so differently?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/14185/is-there-more-than-one-rule/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Meeting someone outside The GLBT Box</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14100/meeting-someone-outside-the-glbt-box/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/14100/meeting-someone-outside-the-glbt-box/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 07 Jan 2012 05:01:08 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14100</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "I’m 36, fun, good-looking and very educated. I just can’t go to GLBT bars, chat rooms or any other ridiculous place GLBT people go to meet each other. So, how can I meet my match without dumping my self-respect?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/14100/meeting-someone-outside-the-glbt-box/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>2</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>You are one in a million</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/14010/you-are-one-in-a-million/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/14010/you-are-one-in-a-million/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 05:01:36 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=14010</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader needs some advice, asking, "I seem to be on an unlucky streak. I lost my job, my lover and now I’m being evicted. The only thing good in my life is my health and my cat. What do you do in times like these?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/14010/you-are-one-in-a-million/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Being gay is a gift from God</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13909/being-gay-is-a-gift-from-god/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/13909/being-gay-is-a-gift-from-god/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 12:01:44 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13909</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "Very simply, I’m gay! There it is! I said it. Am I going to Hell!?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/13909/being-gay-is-a-gift-from-god/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>When in Rome do as the Romans do</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13461/when-in-rome-do-as-the-romans-do/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/13461/when-in-rome-do-as-the-romans-do/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 05:01:31 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13461</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader has a major family dilemma, and asks, "Recently, I moved in with my father and his new wife. But, she wants me to be quiet about being gay. She’s afraid she will lose custody of her grandchildren because a gay man is living in her house. I told her it won’t happen. It’s against the law. Unfortunately, I don’t have a job or the money to move. What should I do?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/13461/when-in-rome-do-as-the-romans-do/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Chat rooms, gay bars and coffee shops, oh my!</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13291/chat-rooms-gay-bars-and-coffee-shops-oh-my/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/13291/chat-rooms-gay-bars-and-coffee-shops-oh-my/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 12 Nov 2011 05:01:15 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13291</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader poses, "After dating the same woman for three years, I recently found out that she cheated on me. I love her and don’t want to lose her, but what about my integrity and my pride. She doesn’t know I know. What should I do?]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/13291/chat-rooms-gay-bars-and-coffee-shops-oh-my/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>When your best friend is too nosey</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/13063/when-your-best-friend-is-too-nosey/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/13063/when-your-best-friend-is-too-nosey/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 29 Oct 2011 04:01:02 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=13063</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader from Raleigh inquires: "I’ve been reading about your 'liberal' advise on extra marital affairs with men already in relationships! Don’t you think advocating extra marital affairs is despicable and mindless, especially for an internationally syndicated advise columnist?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/13063/when-your-best-friend-is-too-nosey/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Love at first sight isn&#8217;t easy with glasses?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12916/love-at-first-sight-isnt-easy-with-glasses/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/12916/love-at-first-sight-isnt-easy-with-glasses/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 16:01:03 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12916</guid> <description><![CDATA[A four-eyed dilemma: A reader asks, "My best friend keeps pushing me to get rid of my glasses and get contacts. He says it will help my dating life and my sex life. But, what’s wrong with glasses?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/12916/love-at-first-sight-isnt-easy-with-glasses/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The secret spell of the drag queens</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12696/the-secret-spell-of-the-drag-queens/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/12696/the-secret-spell-of-the-drag-queens/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 01 Oct 2011 22:01:37 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12696</guid> <description><![CDATA[Talk about sibling rivalry! A reader asks, "I’ve been dating this guy off and on for almost a year, but then I met his brother. Now, I have been fooling around with his brother behind his back. Am I bad or is it his brother’s fault?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/12696/the-secret-spell-of-the-drag-queens/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>When someone is screwing someone behind someone&#8217;s back</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12491/when-someone-is-screwing-someone-behind-someones-back/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/12491/when-someone-is-screwing-someone-behind-someones-back/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 17 Sep 2011 04:02:19 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12491</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader has a very difficult situation indeed, and asks, "My boyfriend moved into a house with four other gay men. Now, he hardly wants to be with me anymore. He also won’t talk about it. Help!"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/12491/when-someone-is-screwing-someone-behind-someones-back/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Why can’t we all just get along?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12196/why-can%e2%80%99t-we-all-just-get-along/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/12196/why-can%e2%80%99t-we-all-just-get-along/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2011 04:01:17 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12196</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "All this complaining and inside fighting between the gay men, lesbian and bisexual community over the “transgender” community makes gay rights so much less powerful! Don’t you agree?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/12196/why-can%e2%80%99t-we-all-just-get-along/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>3</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Subliminal message may cure age-a-phobia</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/12118/subliminal-message-may-cure-age-a-phobia/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/12118/subliminal-message-may-cure-age-a-phobia/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 20 Aug 2011 04:01:05 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=12118</guid> <description><![CDATA[A fib-telling reader inquires for a solution: "This may sound juvenile, but I’m afraid to tell my girlfriend that I’m younger than I said I was. I’m afraid she’ll dump me. She always says, 'I really like that you’re older than me.' And, so on. What should I do?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/12118/subliminal-message-may-cure-age-a-phobia/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Feeding the fire of your relationship</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/11920/feeding-the-fire-of-your-relationship/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/11920/feeding-the-fire-of-your-relationship/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 06 Aug 2011 04:01:41 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=11920</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "After seven years with the same person, our relationship has become sexually stale. Some of our friends who are also couples say, 'Try different and alternative sexual activities.' Don’t you think sexual 'alternatives' are cop-outs?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/11920/feeding-the-fire-of-your-relationship/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Daily dating affirmation, really?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/11799/daily-dating-affirmation-really/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/11799/daily-dating-affirmation-really/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 23 Jul 2011 04:01:19 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=11799</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader tells Trinity: "I’m dating a smoker and I’m a nonsmoker. I’m trying to be accepting of it, but it’s really not easy. Help!" As always, Trinity is quick to help. Read her tips for dating a smoker.]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/11799/daily-dating-affirmation-really/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Will coming out stop your life or start it?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/11710/will-coming-out-stop-your-life-or-start-it/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/11710/will-coming-out-stop-your-life-or-start-it/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 04:01:45 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=11710</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "About a month ago, I came out to my wife, two kids and to my very straight job. My wife was great, but my job couldn’t handle it so I was fired. Did I do the right thing?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/11710/will-coming-out-stop-your-life-or-start-it/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The right time to finally sleepover</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/11463/the-right-time-to-finally-sleepover/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/11463/the-right-time-to-finally-sleepover/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 25 Jun 2011 04:01:56 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=11463</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks Trinity, "After three weeks of dating, my girlfriend wants me to finally “sleepover.” But, I’m afraid it will ruin everything. When is it a good time to finally sleepover?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/11463/the-right-time-to-finally-sleepover/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>If the first date is such hell, why bother?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/11384/if-the-first-date-is-such-hell-why-bother/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/11384/if-the-first-date-is-such-hell-why-bother/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 12 Jun 2011 00:02:30 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=11384</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "I hate first dates. Why would anyone put themselves through such hell as a first date?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/11384/if-the-first-date-is-such-hell-why-bother/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Does selfishness ever go away?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/11209/does-selfishness-ever-go-away/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/11209/does-selfishness-ever-go-away/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 28 May 2011 04:01:00 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=11209</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dear Trinity, It’s been five years and I love my boyfriend. However, he’s selfish and as time goes on, he gets less and less eager to compromise. I’m beginning to feel like a doormat. What can I do?]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/11209/does-selfishness-ever-go-away/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Help, I’m trapped in a raunchy sex scene</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/11019/help-i%e2%80%99m-trapped-in-a-raunchy-sex-scene/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/11019/help-i%e2%80%99m-trapped-in-a-raunchy-sex-scene/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 14 May 2011 04:01:38 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=11019</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks: "I met this guy at the bar and brought him home for some lovin’. Well, he turned into a sex pig, spitting, swearing, choking and more. I’m not vanilla, but when sex gets too dirty or painful it turns me off. How do you know if someone wants a 'scene' rather than just good sex?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/11019/help-i%e2%80%99m-trapped-in-a-raunchy-sex-scene/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Is it killing you?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/10859/is-it-killing-you/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/10859/is-it-killing-you/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 30 Apr 2011 04:01:18 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=10859</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks: "As I reach middle age, my health, looks and sex appeal are dying out. Don’t you think suicide at middle age is better than letting old age kill me?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/10859/is-it-killing-you/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Before you have that one-night stand</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/10786/before-you-have-that-one-night-stand/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/10786/before-you-have-that-one-night-stand/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 16 Apr 2011 04:01:40 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=10786</guid> <description><![CDATA[Tired of being spurned by hook-ups, a reader asks Trinity, "What's up with open relationships?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/10786/before-you-have-that-one-night-stand/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>How long is too long for the first kiss</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/10615/how-long-is-too-long-for-the-first-kiss/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/10615/how-long-is-too-long-for-the-first-kiss/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 02 Apr 2011 17:03:13 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=10615</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader from Atlanta, Ga., asks, "I’m openly gay and seeing a closeted guy for a couple of weeks. He hasn’t even kissed me yet. Am I wasting my time?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/10615/how-long-is-too-long-for-the-first-kiss/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Celibacy: Is it right for me?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/10472/celibacy-is-it-right-for-me/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/10472/celibacy-is-it-right-for-me/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 19 Mar 2011 05:03:49 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=10472</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "I’m not becoming a priest, but I thought I’d try celibacy. Do you think it’s a good idea?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/10472/celibacy-is-it-right-for-me/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Pharmaceuticals vs. alternative medicines</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/10288/pharmaceuticals-vs-alternative-medicines/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/10288/pharmaceuticals-vs-alternative-medicines/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 05 Mar 2011 05:02:41 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=10288</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks Trinity, "Do you really think natural foods or alternative medicines have any benefits? Isn’t all that just birdseed and seaweed?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/10288/pharmaceuticals-vs-alternative-medicines/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Looking at the bright side</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/10074/looking-at-the-bright-side/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/10074/looking-at-the-bright-side/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 19 Feb 2011 05:02:09 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=10074</guid> <description><![CDATA[Everyone hears "Look at the bright side" at least once when facing a daunting situation, but a reader asks Trinity what could possibly be the "bright" of a gay bashing or AIDS. ]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/10074/looking-at-the-bright-side/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Fetishism 101</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9948/fetishism-101/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9948/fetishism-101/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 05 Feb 2011 05:02:43 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9948</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader in Raleigh asks, "My ex was into the fetish scene and now two years later I am beginning to find it very interesting. Any advice for first timers?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9948/fetishism-101/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Circuit parties, are they worth it?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9795/circuit-parties-are-they-worth-it/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9795/circuit-parties-are-they-worth-it/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 22 Jan 2011 22:02:38 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9795</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks Trinity, "What are circuit parties and would you recommend them?" And, as always, Trinity answers.]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9795/circuit-parties-are-they-worth-it/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Can love at 40 be like it was at 20?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9645/can-love-at-40-be-like-it-was-at-20/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9645/can-love-at-40-be-like-it-was-at-20/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 08 Jan 2011 05:02:24 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9645</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dear Trinity: When I was 20 I fell in love so easily. Now I’m 40 and I have trouble letting myself fall in love. Why is it so hard at 40?]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9645/can-love-at-40-be-like-it-was-at-20/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Expectation is the word disappointment in disguise</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9518/expectation-is-the-word-disappointment-in-disguise/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9518/expectation-is-the-word-disappointment-in-disguise/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 25 Dec 2010 23:02:19 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9518</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks Trinity, "Sometimes my lover just doesn’t get me. It’s so frustrating. I don’t mean to expect unreasonable things from her, but how can I get my needs met without losing my mind from having to ask for every little thing I need or want? Must I always ask?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9518/expectation-is-the-word-disappointment-in-disguise/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Getting back together for the second time?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9435/getting-back-together-for-the-second-time/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9435/getting-back-together-for-the-second-time/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 11 Dec 2010 23:03:36 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9435</guid> <description><![CDATA[After a break-up, he wants to get back together. Should I or shouldn't I. You ask. Trinity Tells.]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9435/getting-back-together-for-the-second-time/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>It&#8217;s all a numbers game!</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9331/its-all-a-numbers-game/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9331/its-all-a-numbers-game/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 27 Nov 2010 05:01:56 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9331</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks, "As an American living in Montreal, I’m finding gay men not nearly as friendly here as in the States. How do I get these self-absorbed gays to talk and/or eventually date me?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9331/its-all-a-numbers-game/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Communication: is it really that imporant?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9167/communication-is-it-really-that-imporant/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9167/communication-is-it-really-that-imporant/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 13 Nov 2010 04:03:01 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9167</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader asks Trinity, "My lover constantly says, 'Communication is everything. If you ‘want’ a relationship you have to ‘want’ to communicate!' Really?']]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9167/communication-is-it-really-that-imporant/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The girlfriend, the daughter, the relationship &amp; the father</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/9030/the-girlfriend-the-daughter-the-relationship-the-father/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/9030/the-girlfriend-the-daughter-the-relationship-the-father/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 31 Oct 2010 03:03:09 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=9030</guid> <description><![CDATA[A 22-year-old Charlottean asks how he can get more action out of his slightly older partner. He says, "...he’s 26 and when I want to get my freak on with him he’s not interested. I love him, but I have needs!"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/9030/the-girlfriend-the-daughter-the-relationship-the-father/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Dealing with &#8216;the silent treatment&#8217;</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/8879/dealing-with-the-silent-treatment/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/8879/dealing-with-the-silent-treatment/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 04:02:25 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=8879</guid> <description><![CDATA[A reader in Raleigh asks, "My four-year relationship needs a sex overhaul or we won’t make it to year five. I am thinking of an open relationship. What do you think?"]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/8879/dealing-with-the-silent-treatment/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Clubs, Lies And Deep See Fishing</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/8670/clubs-lies-and-deep-see-fishing/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/8670/clubs-lies-and-deep-see-fishing/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 02 Oct 2010 04:02:19 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=8670</guid> <description><![CDATA[Hey Girl, There’s a guy at the gay clubs whom I think likes me. But, sometimes he says he’s “bi”, sometimes “just curious” and other times he’s “straight.” He kissed me twice in the last year when he was sober. What should I do? The Daily Report, Milwaukee, Wisconsin Hey [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/8670/clubs-lies-and-deep-see-fishing/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Is fear of rejection stopping you?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/8192/is-fear-of-rejection-stopping-you/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/8192/is-fear-of-rejection-stopping-you/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 04:01:14 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=8192</guid> <description><![CDATA[Hello Trinity, Being single is OK, but sometimes it seems so much easier to stay home than to go out just to be ignored. And, when I do date, it only lasts a while anyway. Rejection sucks, so why bother? Rejecting Rejection, Boulder, CO Hello Rejection, Sure, rejection sucks compared [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/8192/is-fear-of-rejection-stopping-you/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>The true confessions of a…bottom</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/8000/the-true-confessions-of-a%e2%80%a6bottom/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/8000/the-true-confessions-of-a%e2%80%a6bottom/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 21 Aug 2010 04:03:25 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=8000</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dearest Trinity, After eight years, my boyfriend and I get along in every way except sexually. See, I’m not a bottom, yet 100 percent of the time he only wants to top me. So, I’ve been “taking it” for eight years with nothing in return. Basically, I’m married to my [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/8000/the-true-confessions-of-a%e2%80%a6bottom/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Ending a relationship so that no one gets killed</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/7811/ending-a-relationship-so-that-no-one-gets-killed/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/7811/ending-a-relationship-so-that-no-one-gets-killed/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 07 Aug 2010 04:03:44 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=7811</guid> <description><![CDATA[Hey Trinity, My ex is mad, not because I dumped him, but because I did it on the phone. With my last breakup, I just wrote an email and that worked fine. Did I do something wrong? YBThere, Maui, HI Hey YBThere, In no book, Bible or contract is it [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/7811/ending-a-relationship-so-that-no-one-gets-killed/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Drag queens, cross dressers and trannies…Oh, my!</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/7695/drag-queens-cross-dressers-and-trannies%e2%80%a6oh-my/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/7695/drag-queens-cross-dressers-and-trannies%e2%80%a6oh-my/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 04:01:50 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=7695</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dear Trinity, I just started doing drag, but there are so many words describing men who dress as women — like drag queens, transvestites or female impersonators — that my head hurts. Can you lay it out clear and simple? Drag Head Aches, Key West, FL Dear Drag Head Aches, [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/7695/drag-queens-cross-dressers-and-trannies%e2%80%a6oh-my/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>3</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Are first impressions really that important?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/7521/are-first-impressions-really-that-important/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/7521/are-first-impressions-really-that-important/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 21:01:27 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=7521</guid> <description><![CDATA[Hello Trinity, My roommate keeps pushing me to get dressed up when I have an interview or a date. But, shouldn’t I be liked and accepted for who I am not for who I make believe I am? First Take, Albuquerque, NM Hello First Take, When first meeting someone you [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/7521/are-first-impressions-really-that-important/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>My ex, his boyfriend and World War Three(some)</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/7312/my-ex-his-boyfriend-and-world-war-threesome/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/7312/my-ex-his-boyfriend-and-world-war-threesome/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 04:01:00 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=7312</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dear Trinity, A month ago I became friends with my ex’s new boyfriend. It was just coincidental. But, my ex has gotten really stirred up and is trying to destroy the friendship. His boyfriend still wants to be friends, but I’m stuck in World War Three. Help? Stuck, Albany, NY [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/7312/my-ex-his-boyfriend-and-world-war-threesome/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Sex, traveling, escorts &amp; strip clubs</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/7188/sex-traveling-escorts-strip-clubs/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/7188/sex-traveling-escorts-strip-clubs/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 12 Jun 2010 18:01:23 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=7188</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dear Trinity, I’m a 41-year-old gay businessman who likes visiting (male) strip bars when I travel, especially in Montreal. Even though most of the guys are hard-edged, young and usually bi or straight, I’m thinking of hiring one as a “paid traveling companion.” What do you think? Companion For Hire, [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/7188/sex-traveling-escorts-strip-clubs/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Gay men, straight women, friendships and boundaries</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/6990/gay-men-straight-women-friendships-and-boundaries/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/6990/gay-men-straight-women-friendships-and-boundaries/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 29 May 2010 04:01:47 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=6990</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dear Trinity, Why do gay men form close bonds with straight women, complete with flirtations. See, I really don’t think my gay friend means to be cruel, but all his snuggling and affection makes me feel used. Maybe we need better boundaries? Girl/Gay Boundaries, Kansas City, MO Dear Girl/Gay Boundaries, [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/6990/gay-men-straight-women-friendships-and-boundaries/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Two’s company and three&#8230; maybe a good thing</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/6763/two%e2%80%99s-company-and-three-maybe-a-good-thing/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/6763/two%e2%80%99s-company-and-three-maybe-a-good-thing/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sun, 16 May 2010 00:03:45 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=6763</guid> <description><![CDATA[Now really Trinity, Aren’t threesome relationships a guaranteed scenario for trouble, jealousy and inevitable failure? Triangular Troubles, Houston, TX Now really TT, All relationships between two people, at one time or another, experience trouble, jealousy and possible failure. If you talk to many threesome couples, and I have, honey, the [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/6763/two%e2%80%99s-company-and-three-maybe-a-good-thing/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Can straight men cheat with other straight men?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/6501/can-straight-men-cheat-with-other-straight-men/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/6501/can-straight-men-cheat-with-other-straight-men/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 01 May 2010 21:01:00 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=6501</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dear Trinity, I’ve been married for seven years and do not have sex with my wife. I recently met a guy who is having the same problem. Is it wrong if we have sex with each other when both of us are not getting pleasure from our wives? Just For [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/6501/can-straight-men-cheat-with-other-straight-men/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Dating someone out of your &#8216;league&#8217;</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/6329/dating-someone-out-of-your-league/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/6329/dating-someone-out-of-your-league/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 17 Apr 2010 19:03:51 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=6329</guid> <description><![CDATA[Hey Trinity, I’m not unattractive, but I’m attracted to guys way out of my league. How do I meet, and eventually date, someone way better looking than me? Upping The Ante?, Peoria, IL Hey Upping The Ante, Everyday people date others “out of their league” simply because someone had the [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/6329/dating-someone-out-of-your-league/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Barflies, distant men and losers</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/6182/barflies-distant-men-and-losers/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/6182/barflies-distant-men-and-losers/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 22:01:35 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=6182</guid> <description><![CDATA[Hello Trinity, I met someone at the bar who says he “wants to be with me” yet doesn’t want to do non-bar related stuff together, not even a movie. When I confront him he compares me to his abusive ex. Is there an unhealthy issue I haven’t figured out? He [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/6182/barflies-distant-men-and-losers/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Should your lover know all of your fetishes?</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/6077/should-your-lover-know-all-of-your-fetishes/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/6077/should-your-lover-know-all-of-your-fetishes/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 23:01:19 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=6077</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dearest Trinity, I’m 27, male, straight and have fetishes for woman’s panties. My girlfriend lets me wear hers and I also own other woman’s panties I call “mystery panties” because I don’t know who they belonged to. How can I get my girlfriend to let me wear my mystery panties [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/6077/should-your-lover-know-all-of-your-fetishes/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Oh, God! He wants an open relationship!</title><link>http://goqnotes.com/5797/oh-god-he-wants-an-open-relationship/</link> <comments>http://goqnotes.com/5797/oh-god-he-wants-an-open-relationship/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:01:22 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Trinity</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Tell Trinity]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://goqnotes.com/?p=5797</guid> <description><![CDATA[Dearest Trinity, My lover wants to try an open relationship. What does that exactly mean? Not Open, Boston, MA Dearest Not Open, When one or both persons in a relationship want permission to be pigs, I mean sleep with other people, then that’s an “open relationship.” It does not mean [...]]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://goqnotes.com/5797/oh-god-he-wants-an-open-relationship/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>0</slash:comments> </item> </channel> </rss>
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