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Trinity – QNotes

Does Selfishness Ever Go Away?

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A reader asks: “It’s been five years, and I love my girlfriend. However, she’s selfish, and as time goes on, she gets less and less eager to compromise. I’m beginning to feel like a doormat. What can I do?”

Help, I’m Trapped in a Raunchy Sex Scene

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A reader asks: “I met this guy at the bar and brought him home for some lovin’. Well he turned into a sex pig, spitting, swearing, choking and more. I’m not vanilla, but when sex gets too dirty or painful it turns me off. How do you know if someone wants a “scene” rather than just good sex?”

Middle Age: Is It Killing You?

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A reader asks: “As I reach middle age, my health, looks and sex appeal are dying out. Don’t you think dying before middle age is better than letting old age kill you?”

Before you have that one-night stand

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A reader asks: “I love one-night stands. But every time I say, “Wanna get together again?” they say, “Sorry, I’m in a relationship!” What’s up with open relationships? Is everyone married?”

Celibacy: Is it for me?

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A reader asks: “I’m not becoming a priest, but I thought I’d try celibacy. Do you think it’s a good idea?”

Looking at the bright side

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A reader asks: “I’ve heard people say, ‘Look at the bright side!’ But what could possibly be bright about bullying or gay bashing or AIDS?”

Fetishism 101

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A reader asks: “My ex was into the fetish scene and now, two years later, I’m beginning to find it very interesting myself. Any advice for first timers?”