Celibacy: Is it for me?
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A reader asks: “I’m not becoming a priest, but I thought I’d try celibacy. Do you think it’s a good idea?”
Pharmaceuticals vs. Alternative Medicines
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A reader asks: “Do you really think natural foods or alternative medicines have any benefits? Isn’t all that just birdseed and seaweed?”
Looking at the bright side
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A reader asks: “I’ve heard people say, ‘Look at the bright side!’ But what could possibly be bright about bullying or gay bashing or AIDS?”
Fetishism 101
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A reader asks: “My ex was into the fetish scene and now, two years later, I’m beginning to find it very interesting myself. Any advice for first timers?”
Circuit Parties? Are They Worth It?
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A reader asks: “What are circuit parties and would you recommend them?”
Can love at 40 be like it was at 20?
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A reader asks: “When I was 20 I fell in love easily. Now I’m 40, and I have trouble letting myself fall in love. Why is it so hard at 40?”
Expectation is the word disappointment in disguise
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A reader asks: “Sometimes my partner just doesn’t get me. It’s so frustrating. I don’t mean to expect unreasonable things from her, but how can I get my needs met without losing my mind from having to ask for every little thing I need or want? Must I always ask?”
Getting back together for the second time?
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A reader asks: “I broke up with my ex about two years ago. Now he wants to get back together again, but it’s always just to see if the relationship will work this time. Should I give him another chance?”
It’s all a numbers game
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A reader asks, “As an American living in Montreal I’m finding gay men not nearly as friendly here as in the States. How do I get these self-absorbed gays to talk and/or eventually date me?”
Communication: Is it really that important?
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A reader asks: “My partner constantly says, ‘Communication is everything. If you ‘want’ a relationship, you have to ‘want’ to communicate!’ Really?”
