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Going Out or Going Online During COVID-19

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A reader asks: “I’ve been going to gay bars for years. This is how I enjoy life, how I meet friends and meet dates. But now everything is closed because of COVID-19, and could be closed for months. Even Meetups have stopped, and dating online is futile. I know it will pass, but… help!”

Gender Confirmation Surgery: Parents and Outsider Thoughts

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A reader asks: “I have a 27-year-old son who is gay and I love him very much. He now wants to have his gender changed. This is something I am having an awful time dealing with. I feel you’d understand this situation somewhat better than me.”

Can I Know More Than My Doctor?

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A reader asks: “I’ve been ill for months now. And I’ve been telling my primary doctor that I know what’s wrong with me. But he keeps saying, “the tests don’t prove it.” But I’m sure I know myself. What do I do?”

Rejection 101

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A reader asks: “I’m a 30-year old model. However, after hundreds of gigs, over the last 10 years, I recently experienced my first real rejection. It’s awful! I’m trained in many things but not for such rejection. Help?”

What Makes Grown-ups Grow Up?

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A reader asks: “I slept with my best friend’s partner. It just happened! Now, the partner wants to do it again and is very persistent. Help!”

We’ve Never Met, But I’m In Love

A reader asks: “A few months ago I met a guy on the Internet who lives in another state. We talk on the phone a lot, but we’ve never met. Now, I am falling in love and I want to tell him. Is this a good idea?”

Born Free Until My Ex Calls

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A reader asks: “After a year of being tied down in a relationship, I’m now free. But when I told my ex I was going on vacation to let loose and experience endless sexual encounters, he told me that I was shallow and inconsistent. Is he right?”