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My Ex Is Back and He Wants To…Date!

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A reader asks: “My ex just moved back to my area after being away for seven months! Not a call or a letter, nothing! Now he wants to get back together. Don’t you think seven months is too long to keep someone hanging and expect them to get back together?”

Young, Gifted and Gay!

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A reader asks: “I’m writing to you because I’m 18, gay and live in a small town. There’s not a lot for me to do. It seems that if you’re not of drinking age or live in a big city, you’re considered a gay outcast. Sometimes, I think there’s no place for me! Help!”

Your Secret’s NOT Safe With Me

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A reader asks: “My best friend won’t talk to me anymore because I told someone something about her that I swore I would never tell. Don’t you think it’s wrong to give up a long-time friendship just because someone slipped?”

Oh No, Not Drag!

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A reader asks: “Recently, a guy I’ve been dating just told me he did drag. He’s so masculine. I never suspected it. I’m afraid that seeing him in drag will ruin my sexual attraction for him. Help!”

When To Tell The Truth? When To Shut Up?

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A reader asks: “My new girlfriend has a four-year-old daughter that she conceived by sleeping with a man just to get pregnant. She has never told the father or the daughter about each other. However, I feel strongly that they both have a right to know. My girlfriend disagrees and never intends to tell either one of them. What do you think, and should I tell the father?:

Meeting Someone Outside The LGBTQ Box

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A reader asks: “I’m 36, fun, good-looking and very educated. I just can’t bring myself to go to LGBTQ bars, hook up apps or any other ridiculous place to meet other gay folks. So how can I meet my match without dumping my self-respect?”