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Fetishism 101

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A reader asks: “My ex was into the fetish scene and now, two years later, I’m beginning to find it very interesting myself. Any advice for first timers?”

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Can love at 40 be like it was at 20?

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A reader asks: “When I was 20 I fell in love easily. Now I’m 40, and I have trouble letting myself fall in love. Why is it so hard at 40?”

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Expectation is the word disappointment in disguise

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A reader asks: “Sometimes my partner just doesn’t get me. It’s so frustrating. I don’t mean to expect unreasonable things from her, but how can I get my needs met without losing my mind from having to ask for every little thing I need or want? Must I always ask?”

Getting back together for the second time?

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A reader asks: “I broke up with my ex about two years ago. Now he wants to get back together again, but it’s always just to see if the relationship will work this time. Should I give him another chance?”

It’s all a numbers game

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A reader asks, “As an American living in Montreal I’m finding gay men not nearly as friendly here as in the States. How do I get these self-absorbed gays to talk and/or eventually date me?”

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But my boyfriend’s not ugly to me

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I’m a gay male whose hubby moved to California a year ago for work and is soon returning. Now, he’s afraid I won’t like him because he hasn’t worked out since he left. I told him I of course still love him. But how can I prove it?

The girlfriend, the daughter, the relationship & the father

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A reader asks: “I came out last year in my first lesbian relationship. Next month my girlfriend and I plan to move to another state because of her job. However, I have a three-year-old daughter whose father is active in her life. Now, if I move he wants custody. Help?”

Dealing with ‘the silent treatment’

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A reader asks: “My partner often shows displeasure with me by closing off all communication for a few days with the “silent treatment.” But then I feel horrible and abused. Any help would be appreciated!”