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Daily dating affirmation: really?

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A reader asks: “Why does dating always have to be so negative and draining? Isn’t there some way for getting through the daily sludge of dating?”

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Barflies, Distant Men and Losers

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A reader asks: “I met someone at the bar who says he “wants to be with me,” yet doesn’t want to do non-bar related stuff together, not even a movie. When I confront him, he compares me to his abusive ex. Is there an unhealthy issue I haven’t figured out?”

If The First Date Is Such Hell, Why Bother?

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A reader asks: “I hate first dates. Why would anyone put themselves through such hell as a first date?”

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Does Selfishness Ever Go Away?

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A reader asks: “It’s been five years, and I love my girlfriend. However, she’s selfish, and as time goes on, she gets less and less eager to compromise. I’m beginning to feel like a doormat. What can I do?”

Help, I’m Trapped in a Raunchy Sex Scene

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A reader asks: “I met this guy at the bar and brought him home for some lovin’. Well he turned into a sex pig, spitting, swearing, choking and more. I’m not vanilla, but when sex gets too dirty or painful it turns me off. How do you know if someone wants a “scene” rather than just good sex?”

Middle Age: Is It Killing You?

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A reader asks: “As I reach middle age, my health, looks and sex appeal are dying out. Don’t you think dying before middle age is better than letting old age kill you?”

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Before you have that one-night stand

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A reader asks: “I love one-night stands. But every time I say, “Wanna get together again?” they say, “Sorry, I’m in a relationship!” What’s up with open relationships? Is everyone married?”

Celibacy: Is it for me?

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A reader asks: “I’m not becoming a priest, but I thought I’d try celibacy. Do you think it’s a good idea?”