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Five easy steps for turning up the flame of your lover’s sexual appetite

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Dear Trinity, Maybe it’s normal over time, but sex with my partner has grown from daily and weekly to barely once a month and we’ve only been together for two years. I don’t like the direction our sex life is headed. Is once every three or four weeks normal for a gay couple (late 30s) …

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When to keep your mouth open and when to shut it

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Dear Trinity, I know you’re going to tell me to mind my own business, but one of my friends was a stripper and is now escorting. I’m worried about him. Should I speak to his parents? Righting A Wrong, Orange County, Calif. Dear Wronging A Right, Should you decide what is right or wrong for …

The 11 hats for perfectly hosting the perfect party

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Hello Trinity, My best friends are coming to town and I want to host them a party. But, I’m going crazy. My lover says, “Hire someone!” but I want to do it myself. Help! Hosting Horrors, St. Louis, Mo. Hello Hosting Horrors, Hosting a successful party means putting on “the 11 hats of hosting” starting …

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Is he ‘dumping’ you or is he ‘breaking up’ with you?

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Hello Trinity, For years now, I have loved your advice on “dumping” someone and/or “breaking up,” but what’s the difference? The Differences, Palm Springs, Calif. Hello The Differences, Well, when someone is kind and uses integrity, patience and support to dissolve a romantic interest then that (not so bad) man is “breaking up” with you. …

Are bisexuals ‘towing the fence’ or just being more open minded?

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Hey Trinity, My lover recently announced that she’s bisexual. Aren’t bisexuals towing the fence? And, won’t she have trouble being committed? Confused, Providence, R.I. Hey Confused, On the contrary, bisexuals simply have an ability to feel attraction for both genders. They are definitely not towing the line or non-committal, that’s a myth. Being bi means, …

My boyfriend and I got caught in bed by his military father

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Dear Trinity, Recently, my 18-year-old boyfriend and I (21 years old) were in bed together when his narrow-minded, ex-marine father, whom he lives with, caught us in his bed and threatened to kill me. Now, I have not heard from my boyfriend for days. I’m going insane! What can I do? Traumatized, Winston-Salem, N.C. Dear …

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What to do when your happy hour enters someone’s horny hour

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Hi Trinity, After work I like to go to the local bar for a drink, but I always get approached by guys who act friendly, yet eventually get aggressive about getting into my pants. How do I turn someone away without being too rude? Just A Drink, Milwaukee Wisc. Hi Just A Drink, Here are …

Where to find good, immediate advice

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Dear Trinity, I love your column very much, however sometimes I need advice right away. My friends always have advice, but you know how that goes. Sometimes, I just need objective advice like yours, but immediately? Needing Advice, Norfolk, Va. Dear Needing Advice, Often the very needy ask advice from their bartender, neighborhood ice cream …

How to make the best out of breaking the law

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Hello Trinity, We all know the court system is biased and dependent upon whether a judge is having a good day or not. But, even worse, I got in trouble and have to go to court. Any suggestions for playing the “court” game? Court Troubles, Cambridge, Mass. Hello Court Troubles, There are many ways to …

Will I ever see my ex with someone else and not want to barf?

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Hello Trinity, I see my ex-lover around town from time to time. But this time I saw her at a party passionately kissing someone else. Now its been bothering me for days. I can’t get the picture of them out of my head. And, it’s been three months since we broke up! Does that feeling …