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Where to find good, immediate advice

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Dear Trinity, I love your column very much, however sometimes I need advice right away. My friends always have advice, but you know how that goes. Sometimes, I just need objective advice like yours, but immediately? Needing Advice, Norfolk, Va. Dear Needing Advice, Often the very needy ask advice from their bartender, neighborhood ice cream …

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How to make the best out of breaking the law

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Hello Trinity, We all know the court system is biased and dependent upon whether a judge is having a good day or not. But, even worse, I got in trouble and have to go to court. Any suggestions for playing the “court” game? Court Troubles, Cambridge, Mass. Hello Court Troubles, There are many ways to …

Will I ever see my ex with someone else and not want to barf?

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Hello Trinity, I see my ex-lover around town from time to time. But this time I saw her at a party passionately kissing someone else. Now its been bothering me for days. I can’t get the picture of them out of my head. And, it’s been three months since we broke up! Does that feeling …

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How can I become a pro at dating?

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Hey Trinity, You write a lot about dating. In the game of dating how does one become a pro? Dating Games, Miami Beach, Fla. Hey Dating Games, In sports, athletes study the rules and practice different plays until they eventually get it right and turn pro. With dating, and also with life, the game is …

What’s the true purpose of straight and gay men?

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Hey Trinity, You have said that “gay men were created to teach the world how to be fabulous looking and sexuality enlightened.” Well then what about straight men? Straight Stumped, Richmond, Va. Hey Straight Stumped, Excluding metrosexuals, being sexually attracted to the opposite sex and having little-to-no interior design or fashion sense often defines heterosexual …

Hello in there…he’s married

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Dear Trinity, I met someone who is really great but “really” married. I can’t decide whether to spend time with him or not. Is it really that wrong to date someone married? Undecided, Indianapolis, Ind. Dear Undecided, Yes, it’s wrong, but that’s never stopped anyone. Dating a married man can promise an exciting life of …

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Sex appeal: Fighting it or finding it within yourself

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Dearest Trinity, I’m so sick of the “beautiful people” getting all the attention. Don’t you think that all this importance on beauty and sex appeal is making life too competitive? Beauty Queasy, Minneapolis, Minn. Dearest Beauty Queasy, Sorry to burst your competitive bubble but beauty will always be competitive, always be in style and always …

Is monogamy ruining your relationship?

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Hello Trinity, The life or death act of monogamy seems to be ruining so many couples. Do you really think gay couples can be sexually monogamous for their entire history or do you think monogamy should focus more on the emotional commitment rather than the sexual one? Monoga-Minded, Toledo, Ohio Hello Monoga-Minded, If a gay …

Just because everyone says you’re an addict, are you?

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Dear Trinity, My partner says I’m an addict and need help. If I drink a lot but have a good handle on my life, am I still an addict? Addict With A Handle, Palm Springs, Calif. Dear Addict With A Handle, Most everyone is addicted to something. But as time passes most people can’t recognize …

How to tell your best friend, “You’re being cheated on?”

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Dear Trinity, Everyone accept my best friend knows he’s being cheated on. Should I tell him or should I let him find out on his own? Either way he’s in for a big hurt! Burning Both Ends, Flint, Mich. Dear Burning, The question is not do you tell him, but rather, “How do you help …