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Foreskin: Is it making or breaking your sex life?

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Dear Trinity, After three months together my boyfriend suddenly revealed that he’s uncomfortable with me being uncut. In fact, he has “cut” out oral sex completely. How do I keep from feeling self-conscious? Cut To The Chase, Minneapolis, Minn. Dear Cut To The Chase, According to Madison Avenue marketing giants, “Men’s sexual desires change with …

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Getting dumped! Is it really your problem or theirs?

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Dear Trinity, My boyfriend left me without a trace. A year later he returned with his new boyfriend. Now, they want me to spend time with them. But, I want some closure first. If I don’t get it should I still see them? And, how can I get over him for good? Wounded, Green Bay, …

Dating a few different people at once: smart or dishonest?

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Hey Trinity, I’ve been dating a couple of people off and on for the last few months. I’m waiting for one to work out. Dating like this has always worked for me, but some of my friends think I’m dishonest. Do you think so? Multidating Doubts, Portland, Maine Hey Multidating Doubts, With powerdating (dating many …

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Get married first! Live together! Help!

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Hey Trinity, My boyfriend wants to live together first before getting married. I was raised differently. Should people live together before marriage? Marriage Tryouts, New Haven, Conn. Hey Marriage Tryouts, Unless your parents are generously wealthy and religious and bribing you to marry first, why not start by living together? Gay couples in most states …

How to play ‘the game’ of picking up someone

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Dearest Trinity, I’m an honest, hard working, well-rounded guy with lots to offer. But, I have a terrible fear of going over and talking to someone I’m interested in. Isn’t there an easier way to play “the game?” Stalemate, Wichita, Kansas Dearest Stalemate, The “pick up” game is truly all about one thing, fear (or …

Don’t spill your guts on the second date

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Dearest Trinity, Before I go on a second date with someone I really like, I thought I’d ask, what should a second date be all about? Second Thoughts, Memphis, Tenn. Dearest Second Thoughts, A second date is like…(no that won’t work). Second dates are to roses as…(no that’s too flowery). Ah, yes, a second date …

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Jealousy: Can it make your relationship stronger…or?

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Hello Trinity, My boyfriend doesn’t appreciate me, so I’m trying to make him jealous. What are other ways to keep his attention? Attention Please, Rehoboth Beach, Del. Hello Attention Please, Jealousy seems like a great way to build someone’s desire, yet it only reads well in the tabloids. In real life jealousy creates a dirtier …

Are rules of celibacy turning clergy into criminals?

Dear Trinity, With everything that’s going on in the Catholic Church surrounding celibacy, is celibacy really practical in today’s oversexed society? Celibate Thoughts, Montreal, Canada Dear Celibate Thoughts, Good question. Lets take ourselves to Boston, Mass., 2002 where we pick up the Boston Globe to find headlines uncovering an explosion of pedophilia charges against the …

What the ‘F’ is so fantastic about forgiveness

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Dearest Trinity, I haven’t talked to my ex in years, but just found out he’s ill. I’d like to forgive him and call but why should I forgive that f#@*in bastard when he was so awful to me? Why Forgive, Indianapolis, Ind. Dearest Why, “Forgive but never forget,” say many Holocaust survivors, who also say, …

When is revenge wrong or just good ole common sense?

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Hey Trinity, Is revenge really so wrong? The Revenger, Daytona Beach, Fla. Hey Revenger, You mean as in retaliation or vengeance? To steal from, destroy or put a mafia hit on someone or make someone’s life worse than death by filing an unethical public lawsuit? Well, if you’re talking about that, then, yes, revenge is …