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How to play ‘the game’ of picking up someone

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Dearest Trinity, I’m an honest, hard working, well-rounded guy with lots to offer. But, I have a terrible fear of going over and talking to someone I’m interested in. Isn’t there an easier way to play “the game?” Stalemate, Wichita, Kansas Dearest Stalemate, The “pick up” game is truly all about one thing, fear (or …

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Don’t spill your guts on the second date

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Dearest Trinity, Before I go on a second date with someone I really like, I thought I’d ask, what should a second date be all about? Second Thoughts, Memphis, Tenn. Dearest Second Thoughts, A second date is like…(no that won’t work). Second dates are to roses as…(no that’s too flowery). Ah, yes, a second date …

Jealousy: Can it make your relationship stronger…or?

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Hello Trinity, My boyfriend doesn’t appreciate me, so I’m trying to make him jealous. What are other ways to keep his attention? Attention Please, Rehoboth Beach, Del. Hello Attention Please, Jealousy seems like a great way to build someone’s desire, yet it only reads well in the tabloids. In real life jealousy creates a dirtier …

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Are rules of celibacy turning clergy into criminals?

Dear Trinity, With everything that’s going on in the Catholic Church surrounding celibacy, is celibacy really practical in today’s oversexed society? Celibate Thoughts, Montreal, Canada Dear Celibate Thoughts, Good question. Lets take ourselves to Boston, Mass., 2002 where we pick up the Boston Globe to find headlines uncovering an explosion of pedophilia charges against the …

What the ‘F’ is so fantastic about forgiveness

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Dearest Trinity, I haven’t talked to my ex in years, but just found out he’s ill. I’d like to forgive him and call but why should I forgive that f#@*in bastard when he was so awful to me? Why Forgive, Indianapolis, Ind. Dearest Why, “Forgive but never forget,” say many Holocaust survivors, who also say, …

When is revenge wrong or just good ole common sense?

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Hey Trinity, Is revenge really so wrong? The Revenger, Daytona Beach, Fla. Hey Revenger, You mean as in retaliation or vengeance? To steal from, destroy or put a mafia hit on someone or make someone’s life worse than death by filing an unethical public lawsuit? Well, if you’re talking about that, then, yes, revenge is …

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When to keep your mouth open and when to shut it

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Dear Trinity, I know you’re going to tell me to mind my own business, but one of my friends was a stripper and is now escorting. I’m worried about him. Should I speak to his parents? Righting A Wrong, Orange County, Calif. Dear Wronging A Right, Should you decide what is right or wrong for …

The 11 hats for perfectly hosting the perfect party

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Hello Trinity, My best friends are coming to town and I want to host them a party. But, I’m going crazy. My lover says, “Hire someone!” but I want to do it myself. Help! Hosting Horrors, St. Louis, Mo. Hello Hosting Horrors, Hosting a successful party means putting on “the 11 hats of hosting” starting …

Is he ‘dumping’ you or is he ‘breaking up’ with you?

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Hello Trinity, For years now, I have loved your advice on “dumping” someone and/or “breaking up,” but what’s the difference? The Differences, Palm Springs, Calif. Hello The Differences, Well, when someone is kind and uses integrity, patience and support to dissolve a romantic interest then that (not so bad) man is “breaking up” with you. …