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How to break the habit of ‘being shy’

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Dear Trinity, I recently started going out in the gay scene and really enjoy it. My preferred type is TV/TS. But when I see pretty drag queens at the bars, I’m too shy to approach them. What should I do? To Shy Charleston, W.Va. Dear To Shy, Shyness is your mind’s fear of being rejected. …

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How wrong are extra-marital affairs?

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Hello Trinity, The extra-marital affair I am having is starting to bring about many more problems than I could have ever imagined. I am not trying to hurt anyone. I am just trying to take care of my needs. What can I do now? Extra Troubles, Buffalo, N.Y. Hello Extra Troubles, Sometimes we find ourselves …

Beating stress, embracing change and finding a higher paying job

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Hey Trinity, I lost my job of five years and I am so upset. I’m worried that I won’t find another one as good. Any words of wisdom? Jobless, San Francisco, Calif Hey Jobless, Typically, people change jobs four times in their life. So, sweetie, fear not but fear itself. When something awful falls into …

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Being single: A time to develop yourself?

Dear Trinity, Why are some of us cursed with being forever single while everyone else gets to be in love or married? Doesn’t being single just suck? Help, Forever Single, St. Louis, Mo. Dear Forever Single, If you look real closely at people in love you’ll notice plenty of troubled moments hidden in between public …